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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 509287" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>(((DDD))) I fully understand your concerns, I do think this problem can be just as severe! My difficult child has always attracted other difficult children that think I should supplement their income. Honestly, there has only been <strong><em>1 </em></strong>relationship with a easy child that had a full time job and I enjoyed their visits. She stuck by him during a 9 month rehab! They did not have a sexual relationship because she wanted marriage, thank heavens (for her) they did not marry. She contacted me recently and told me she still cares for him. He is my son but I do not encourage her in the least, she has a college degree and is self supporting.</p><p></p><p>The current girlfriend from hell at 2 years has been his longest relationship. I have met her one time and could not wait for them to leave. We live about 5 hours from them and they were going to a concert and stopped to visit for a few days on the way back. She had 'difficult child' in bold red neon letters all over her lol! She stayed on the cell most of the 2 days arguing with someone. When they drove up in her car it looked like a 12yo (or younger) had put the stickers all over the car. During the stay it was 'mom bought the car for me' and 'granny bought this and that for me'.</p><p></p><p> I had to **<strong><em><u>l</u></em></strong><u><em><strong>oan*</strong></em></u>* them money to get home. Soon after that I started receiving emails asking for money. I ignored them and blocked her. Then they had a fight and she called screaming at me so I stopped answering her calls, she leaves very nasty messages telling me I am the reason my son is so f***** up and I never loved him blah, blah, blah. I had to call the police 2 weeks ago to stop the harrassment. She had also been harrassing my daughter (never met) and his friends.</p><p></p><p>They broke up last August and I was lied to (from him) that they were not together. After their last fight 2 weeks ago she was sent to detox. Son told me she drinks and takes different prescription drugs. We suspect crack or something because of the rage she has.</p><p></p><p>I suspect they will get together again and she knows, he knows, and her mother knows, that she will never be welcome in my home. She posted nasty stuff on facebook so none of my family wants anything to do with her either. Her mother and I agree they are a bad combination. They remind me of the gifted college students that the girl made the boy kill a girl because he had sex with her when they were briefly broken up. Girlie is just that venemous and my difficult child appears to be just that stupid. At 37 she is so very immature and I remember that drugs stop emotional growth and distort your thinking.</p><p></p><p>difficult child and my relationship is very strained due to his lies, drama, and conns anyway, but if he continues with her he will have to visit <em><strong>WITHOUT</strong></em> her. He is a follower and she is controlling and they both are jealous of everyone.</p><p></p><p>Watch this be the one that he sticks with, OMG!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 509287, member: 13558"] (((DDD))) I fully understand your concerns, I do think this problem can be just as severe! My difficult child has always attracted other difficult children that think I should supplement their income. Honestly, there has only been [B][I]1 [/I][/B]relationship with a easy child that had a full time job and I enjoyed their visits. She stuck by him during a 9 month rehab! They did not have a sexual relationship because she wanted marriage, thank heavens (for her) they did not marry. She contacted me recently and told me she still cares for him. He is my son but I do not encourage her in the least, she has a college degree and is self supporting. The current girlfriend from hell at 2 years has been his longest relationship. I have met her one time and could not wait for them to leave. We live about 5 hours from them and they were going to a concert and stopped to visit for a few days on the way back. She had 'difficult child' in bold red neon letters all over her lol! She stayed on the cell most of the 2 days arguing with someone. When they drove up in her car it looked like a 12yo (or younger) had put the stickers all over the car. During the stay it was 'mom bought the car for me' and 'granny bought this and that for me'. I had to **[B][I][U]l[/U][/I][/B][U][I][B]oan*[/B][/I][/U]* them money to get home. Soon after that I started receiving emails asking for money. I ignored them and blocked her. Then they had a fight and she called screaming at me so I stopped answering her calls, she leaves very nasty messages telling me I am the reason my son is so f***** up and I never loved him blah, blah, blah. I had to call the police 2 weeks ago to stop the harrassment. She had also been harrassing my daughter (never met) and his friends. They broke up last August and I was lied to (from him) that they were not together. After their last fight 2 weeks ago she was sent to detox. Son told me she drinks and takes different prescription drugs. We suspect crack or something because of the rage she has. I suspect they will get together again and she knows, he knows, and her mother knows, that she will never be welcome in my home. She posted nasty stuff on facebook so none of my family wants anything to do with her either. Her mother and I agree they are a bad combination. They remind me of the gifted college students that the girl made the boy kill a girl because he had sex with her when they were briefly broken up. Girlie is just that venemous and my difficult child appears to be just that stupid. At 37 she is so very immature and I remember that drugs stop emotional growth and distort your thinking. difficult child and my relationship is very strained due to his lies, drama, and conns anyway, but if he continues with her he will have to visit [I][B]WITHOUT[/B][/I] her. He is a follower and she is controlling and they both are jealous of everyone. Watch this be the one that he sticks with, OMG! [/QUOTE]
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