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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 599417" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>If you think it might help her, please tell her something from me. My mothers issues are NOT your difficult child's issues. However, the end result could be the same for her baby, time spent in foster care. I would have done ANYTHING for a mother capable of making the necessary choices and actions needed to ensure I could be with her safely and thrive in her care. I have the utmost respect for those who struggle but make all efforts to be what their children need them to be. She will be rewarded for a LIFETIME for her actions and decisions today and moving forward into treatment and upon release from treatment. She will be able to tell her child as he grows up that she loved him so much she overcame huge and difficult obstacles to ensure that he had a healthy and happy mother capable of providing ALL of his needs and ensuring that he remain with her. She has a lot to be proud of at 2 months clean, even if it was enforced due to being in jail. Each step forward she should honor herself and her commitment to her own life and future and now for the commitment to her sons life and future. What she is doing is the most selfless gift in the world and the most important. She CAN do this and succeed. She can make a fresh start, make the hard choices whatever those choices may be, even having to let go of her sons father if he can't get his life right. Because your daughter is a good person and KNOWS she can do this and her son deserves this. Please if you are comfortable, tell her that I personally absolutely believe she can do this and do it well. Nothing comes easy really in life, and some things are harder than others. But she is blessed with family support and so is her unborn baby. I can speak directly to what happens when a parent refuses to change or get help for their issues and it destroys a child. I applaud her and pray she not only signs the papers for this program, but embraces all that it is offering her and the opportunities she can create for herself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 599417, member: 4264"] If you think it might help her, please tell her something from me. My mothers issues are NOT your difficult child's issues. However, the end result could be the same for her baby, time spent in foster care. I would have done ANYTHING for a mother capable of making the necessary choices and actions needed to ensure I could be with her safely and thrive in her care. I have the utmost respect for those who struggle but make all efforts to be what their children need them to be. She will be rewarded for a LIFETIME for her actions and decisions today and moving forward into treatment and upon release from treatment. She will be able to tell her child as he grows up that she loved him so much she overcame huge and difficult obstacles to ensure that he had a healthy and happy mother capable of providing ALL of his needs and ensuring that he remain with her. She has a lot to be proud of at 2 months clean, even if it was enforced due to being in jail. Each step forward she should honor herself and her commitment to her own life and future and now for the commitment to her sons life and future. What she is doing is the most selfless gift in the world and the most important. She CAN do this and succeed. She can make a fresh start, make the hard choices whatever those choices may be, even having to let go of her sons father if he can't get his life right. Because your daughter is a good person and KNOWS she can do this and her son deserves this. Please if you are comfortable, tell her that I personally absolutely believe she can do this and do it well. Nothing comes easy really in life, and some things are harder than others. But she is blessed with family support and so is her unborn baby. I can speak directly to what happens when a parent refuses to change or get help for their issues and it destroys a child. I applaud her and pray she not only signs the papers for this program, but embraces all that it is offering her and the opportunities she can create for herself. [/QUOTE]
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