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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 198745"><p>This kid is making me crazy!!! Her ignorance is quite scary. She thinks she could be a mom. She wants to have a baby. She actually has her period and she took a test before her period came and it was negative, yet she rubs her belly and calls it "her baby". HELLO!!! She isn't pregnant now but there is no doubt in my mind she will intentionally try to get pregnant. She has a new friend who is 4 months pregnant and since she does not have a mind of her own she is now wanting to be a mother. She is nuts, she cant be a mother, she would end up killing her kids. No matter what we say to her, she really believes she could do it. What about housing and money? She aint living here!!! I would be the worst grandmother in history as I am not taking care of her babies or allowing her to live in my house. Sad to say but the truth is I would let her kids go into foster care before I would raise them. She has already put me and my family through absolute h*ll, it is not fair for her to now expect us to take care of a baby. I wont do it. My husband will no doubt finally leave me. He has stuck by us through all of the chaos but I dont think he would stick around for this. I dont even blame him. If I could leave I would. I know I am worrying for nothing right now, but this could very well happen as my difficult child has no common sense and makes horrible decisions. What are my rights? She is not considered an adult until she is 21 here in the wonderful state of New York. That just isnt fair. If I wanted to take care of a baby I would have one of my own.</p><p></p><p>I am going to call my DSS worker and find out what my rights are. I wonder if I could have her emancipated once she is 18. Anyone know? When I turned 18 my father sent me emancipation papers to sign so that he would no longer be responsible for paying child support to my mother. Can I take her to court? I am a nervous wreck and cannot stress enough that I AM NOT TAKING CARE OF HER KIDS!!!!!! What do I do?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 198745"] This kid is making me crazy!!! Her ignorance is quite scary. She thinks she could be a mom. She wants to have a baby. She actually has her period and she took a test before her period came and it was negative, yet she rubs her belly and calls it "her baby". HELLO!!! She isn't pregnant now but there is no doubt in my mind she will intentionally try to get pregnant. She has a new friend who is 4 months pregnant and since she does not have a mind of her own she is now wanting to be a mother. She is nuts, she cant be a mother, she would end up killing her kids. No matter what we say to her, she really believes she could do it. What about housing and money? She aint living here!!! I would be the worst grandmother in history as I am not taking care of her babies or allowing her to live in my house. Sad to say but the truth is I would let her kids go into foster care before I would raise them. She has already put me and my family through absolute h*ll, it is not fair for her to now expect us to take care of a baby. I wont do it. My husband will no doubt finally leave me. He has stuck by us through all of the chaos but I dont think he would stick around for this. I dont even blame him. If I could leave I would. I know I am worrying for nothing right now, but this could very well happen as my difficult child has no common sense and makes horrible decisions. What are my rights? She is not considered an adult until she is 21 here in the wonderful state of New York. That just isnt fair. If I wanted to take care of a baby I would have one of my own. I am going to call my DSS worker and find out what my rights are. I wonder if I could have her emancipated once she is 18. Anyone know? When I turned 18 my father sent me emancipation papers to sign so that he would no longer be responsible for paying child support to my mother. Can I take her to court? I am a nervous wreck and cannot stress enough that I AM NOT TAKING CARE OF HER KIDS!!!!!! What do I do? [/QUOTE]
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