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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 542800" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Wow...I think you are amazing and I would love to hear more on exactly what you are doing. I am trying desperately trying to get to this place with Cory and we have come a long way to it. We dont become nearly as enmeshed anymore in our issues. I do see some major steps forward in his life that I never thought he would take. He plans on going back to school because he realizes he cannot raise a family on disability. He has decided to start dressing in a much nicer way and less like a hip hop gangster with the sagging jeans. He wants khaki's and fitted jeans with nice shirts. Who is this child? He is still working on his language. </p><p></p><p>I still have issues trying to help him with things when they get too much for him to handle...like with his daughter. I consider this something that also effects me and the rest of our family. My middle son actually made his plans for his two week summer vacation this year to come to see us just so he could see Cory's daughter because he hasnt seen her since she is 4 and now she is 6. They were so close and it has killed him to not see her. We were told she was going to be here for the whole summer for an entire year and then at the last minute the rug was pulled out from under us. That made us furious. All of us. It effected an entire family. I have decided that I will help him with a lawyer to get joint custody and visitation. I wish I had insisted on it years ago. I should have done it years ago. I have an inside tip they may be coming back in December and if they do, those papers will be filled out and ready at the courthouse the second she enrolls those kids in school. I dont care where she lives, if those kids are here, that is their state of residence because this is already her state of residence.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 542800, member: 1514"] Wow...I think you are amazing and I would love to hear more on exactly what you are doing. I am trying desperately trying to get to this place with Cory and we have come a long way to it. We dont become nearly as enmeshed anymore in our issues. I do see some major steps forward in his life that I never thought he would take. He plans on going back to school because he realizes he cannot raise a family on disability. He has decided to start dressing in a much nicer way and less like a hip hop gangster with the sagging jeans. He wants khaki's and fitted jeans with nice shirts. Who is this child? He is still working on his language. I still have issues trying to help him with things when they get too much for him to handle...like with his daughter. I consider this something that also effects me and the rest of our family. My middle son actually made his plans for his two week summer vacation this year to come to see us just so he could see Cory's daughter because he hasnt seen her since she is 4 and now she is 6. They were so close and it has killed him to not see her. We were told she was going to be here for the whole summer for an entire year and then at the last minute the rug was pulled out from under us. That made us furious. All of us. It effected an entire family. I have decided that I will help him with a lawyer to get joint custody and visitation. I wish I had insisted on it years ago. I should have done it years ago. I have an inside tip they may be coming back in December and if they do, those papers will be filled out and ready at the courthouse the second she enrolls those kids in school. I dont care where she lives, if those kids are here, that is their state of residence because this is already her state of residence. [/QUOTE]
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