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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 649500" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>That's right addicts do. There is nothing that is going to happen with addiction than for them to go further and further into their addiction. Also they say these things "We even had it set up while she was pregnant that if he were removed from them he would come to our home" in a way they are being really honest with you how they are afraid that their addiction will take the baby down with them. I say when somebody tells you something about themselves, LISTEN, they know themselves better than you do and trying to stay blind to the truth they are telling serves no one. I feel for you It's in His Hands, but eventually, with a babies well being on the line, you, being the only responsible one in the situation are going to have to do something for the well-being of the baby. </p><p>I was confronted via distant family situation, where I heard that a mother of a new born was smoking pot while nursing. Since I had no first hand knowledge of the situation I was not in a position to report to DCF. In humor, I told my therapist that the best thing that could happen to the baby was it to get out the hell of this family as fast as it could: yelling, crawl baby, crawl. On a more serious note, since we are talking about a very young baby, if you are not up to raising your grandchild, maybe it would be best if the baby could be put up for adoption(with open visitation for you). There are so many families who would love to welcome a new baby into their homes and give it the decent life that you son and his partner are unable to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 649500, member: 18366"] That's right addicts do. There is nothing that is going to happen with addiction than for them to go further and further into their addiction. Also they say these things "We even had it set up while she was pregnant that if he were removed from them he would come to our home" in a way they are being really honest with you how they are afraid that their addiction will take the baby down with them. I say when somebody tells you something about themselves, LISTEN, they know themselves better than you do and trying to stay blind to the truth they are telling serves no one. I feel for you It's in His Hands, but eventually, with a babies well being on the line, you, being the only responsible one in the situation are going to have to do something for the well-being of the baby. I was confronted via distant family situation, where I heard that a mother of a new born was smoking pot while nursing. Since I had no first hand knowledge of the situation I was not in a position to report to DCF. In humor, I told my therapist that the best thing that could happen to the baby was it to get out the hell of this family as fast as it could: yelling, crawl baby, crawl. On a more serious note, since we are talking about a very young baby, if you are not up to raising your grandchild, maybe it would be best if the baby could be put up for adoption(with open visitation for you). There are so many families who would love to welcome a new baby into their homes and give it the decent life that you son and his partner are unable to. [/QUOTE]
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