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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 362722" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I appreciate what you say. I think alanon meetings are an excellent idea. I will be very careful to only deal with my feelings/behavior as he used to be very active in the local AA community.</p><p></p><p>I wish I did not have to discuss it with my parents. Gfgbro will almost certainly print off a copy of the letter he sent to me and he will give it to my mom. My father likely will not read it. He hates this koi and leaves the room if it comes up. Or is exsil is there for more than 10-20 mins. </p><p></p><p>Heck, I am apparently so untrustworthy in my gfgbro's eyes that he had to print a copy of his letter and put it in an envelope with my husband's name on it. And husband was the adult who bore the brunt of his abuse. husband's comment is that bro used a lot of paper and ink to say basically nothing except that he holds grudges. Every time bro gets upset with one of us he accuses me of holding grudges for years. HE is allowed to bring up stuff long past, but if I comment on anything that happened a month ago I am bitter, vindictive and holding grudges better than anyone he knows. in my opinion it is kind of funny. In a sick way.</p><p></p><p>Your support and respect and understanding mean the world to me. The absolute world. Each and every one of you has been a role model, a source of strength and support, a close friend and a dear family member. I love you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 362722, member: 1233"] I appreciate what you say. I think alanon meetings are an excellent idea. I will be very careful to only deal with my feelings/behavior as he used to be very active in the local AA community. I wish I did not have to discuss it with my parents. Gfgbro will almost certainly print off a copy of the letter he sent to me and he will give it to my mom. My father likely will not read it. He hates this koi and leaves the room if it comes up. Or is exsil is there for more than 10-20 mins. Heck, I am apparently so untrustworthy in my gfgbro's eyes that he had to print a copy of his letter and put it in an envelope with my husband's name on it. And husband was the adult who bore the brunt of his abuse. husband's comment is that bro used a lot of paper and ink to say basically nothing except that he holds grudges. Every time bro gets upset with one of us he accuses me of holding grudges for years. HE is allowed to bring up stuff long past, but if I comment on anything that happened a month ago I am bitter, vindictive and holding grudges better than anyone he knows. in my opinion it is kind of funny. In a sick way. Your support and respect and understanding mean the world to me. The absolute world. Each and every one of you has been a role model, a source of strength and support, a close friend and a dear family member. I love you all. [/QUOTE]
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