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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 362834" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>someone said this to me once about an abusive person in my life and how I reacted to it. </p><p> </p><p>In order for (what he says) it to bother you - you have to care (about what he says).</p><p> </p><p>If you didn't care? It wouldn't bother you. </p><p> </p><p>That's where I'd start. No one who is so abusive should get to rent space in your head. If you can't after this many years draw boundaries? You need to work with a better therapist that can establish with you a plan for putting abusive family members out of your life without it damaging your other relationships. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 362834, member: 4964"] someone said this to me once about an abusive person in my life and how I reacted to it. In order for (what he says) it to bother you - you have to care (about what he says). If you didn't care? It wouldn't bother you. That's where I'd start. No one who is so abusive should get to rent space in your head. If you can't after this many years draw boundaries? You need to work with a better therapist that can establish with you a plan for putting abusive family members out of your life without it damaging your other relationships. Hugs - [/QUOTE]
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