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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 109362" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Lovely.</p><p></p><p>boyfriend knew about Nichole going with J. Evidently he didn't actually BELIEVE she'd do it.</p><p></p><p>Nichole came home and IMed him. And the fight was on. She came out and called him on the phone......which is how I know that he did in fact know and is now furious that she went thru with it.</p><p></p><p>She's on her way to his house now.</p><p></p><p>Once I'd dropped J off on our way back from the movies I said to her," Dear, you just did the stupidest thing you've ever done."</p><p></p><p>She couldn't understand why. (so naive about some things) She honestly seemed to think because boyfriend knew all about it, all was good.</p><p></p><p>I told her that she knew, if she was honest with herself, that if the tables were turned and boyfriend went to the movies with some other girl, even if she was his bestest friend ever, she'd be hurt and enraged. So why on earth did she believe boyfriend wouldn't feel the same way?</p><p></p><p>Because he said he didn't. :slap:</p><p></p><p>I said," Little girl, boyfriend is not the King of telling you how he feels, so what on earth makes you think he couldn't have been lying when he said he didn't care?"</p><p></p><p>Then I told her, the quickest way to distroy any relationship is for a person to go out with someone from the opposite sex, unless they're properly supervised by someone else going along. (even then at times it's iffy) For one, it's disrespectful, second it just plain looks bad on both of them, third boyfriend catches the flack from anyone who happened to see his girlfriend out with another guy at the movies. Since this is a small town, that last one will take maybe til tomorrow morning to make it around town.</p><p></p><p>Then she talks to him, and darned if Mom wasn't right on the money. :rolleyes:</p><p></p><p>*sigh*</p><p></p><p>I hope this doesn't drag on too long. I have to get up in the morning. I won't go to bed with the doors unlocked, and Nichole isn't allowed a key to the house.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 109362, member: 84"] Lovely. boyfriend knew about Nichole going with J. Evidently he didn't actually BELIEVE she'd do it. Nichole came home and IMed him. And the fight was on. She came out and called him on the phone......which is how I know that he did in fact know and is now furious that she went thru with it. She's on her way to his house now. Once I'd dropped J off on our way back from the movies I said to her," Dear, you just did the stupidest thing you've ever done." She couldn't understand why. (so naive about some things) She honestly seemed to think because boyfriend knew all about it, all was good. I told her that she knew, if she was honest with herself, that if the tables were turned and boyfriend went to the movies with some other girl, even if she was his bestest friend ever, she'd be hurt and enraged. So why on earth did she believe boyfriend wouldn't feel the same way? Because he said he didn't. [img]:slap:[/img] I said," Little girl, boyfriend is not the King of telling you how he feels, so what on earth makes you think he couldn't have been lying when he said he didn't care?" Then I told her, the quickest way to distroy any relationship is for a person to go out with someone from the opposite sex, unless they're properly supervised by someone else going along. (even then at times it's iffy) For one, it's disrespectful, second it just plain looks bad on both of them, third boyfriend catches the flack from anyone who happened to see his girlfriend out with another guy at the movies. Since this is a small town, that last one will take maybe til tomorrow morning to make it around town. Then she talks to him, and darned if Mom wasn't right on the money. [img]:rolleyes:[/img] *sigh* I hope this doesn't drag on too long. I have to get up in the morning. I won't go to bed with the doors unlocked, and Nichole isn't allowed a key to the house. [/QUOTE]
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