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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 71294" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Hi! Well, he's in a panic for sure. </p><p></p><p>About 24 years ago: you didn't have sex, you questioned how the marriage was going, you moved out, went to couciling, reconciled, moved back in.</p><p></p><p>What can he throw in your face? The fact that even at 20 you handled it according to the rules? That you stepped up when you had concerns and handled it accordingly?</p><p></p><p>See, he screwed up: He told your best friend that he could never forgive you if the roles were reversed and YOU cheated on HIM. NOW he's claiming that 24 years ago, you cheated. </p><p></p><p>Let's say it together: "Grasping at straws"! Good!</p><p></p><p>I agree with everyone though about not getting too informational with the children. What most people forget in these situations (when they do end up bad mouthing their spouse) is that the child is 50% you and 50% him. So when you bad mouth the other, you're telling them that they're 50% flawed. (One of my best friends told me she felt that way as a kid when her parents got divorced).</p><p></p><p>Stay strong! </p><p></p><p>We're all here for you!</p><p></p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 71294, member: 3814"] Hi! Well, he's in a panic for sure. About 24 years ago: you didn't have sex, you questioned how the marriage was going, you moved out, went to couciling, reconciled, moved back in. What can he throw in your face? The fact that even at 20 you handled it according to the rules? That you stepped up when you had concerns and handled it accordingly? See, he screwed up: He told your best friend that he could never forgive you if the roles were reversed and YOU cheated on HIM. NOW he's claiming that 24 years ago, you cheated. Let's say it together: "Grasping at straws"! Good! I agree with everyone though about not getting too informational with the children. What most people forget in these situations (when they do end up bad mouthing their spouse) is that the child is 50% you and 50% him. So when you bad mouth the other, you're telling them that they're 50% flawed. (One of my best friends told me she felt that way as a kid when her parents got divorced). Stay strong! We're all here for you! Beth [/QUOTE]
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