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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 71523" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>I am not quite sure why everyone is so intent on this marriage being dissolved. </p><p></p><p>I do believe the man is wrong. But, does that mean he is a horrible person? I agree his timing IS horrible. </p><p></p><p>He should feel the pain of his mistake and somehow come to realize just how wrong he is. But, to end a 27 year marriage? Not over one infidelity. Sorry. I just do not get that. </p><p></p><p>Now, if the love is gone or the man was already on the edge of separation... There were problems Kfld told us everything was not great for years now. But, I do not think she should throw away 27 years with her husband for a mistake. </p><p></p><p>The marriage should be worked on and efforts made by both parties to figure out what will make the other happy at this point in the marriage. It will be much different than 27 years ago or even 5 years ago. </p><p></p><p>Let me tell you it is not always greener on the other side. Being single is not all wonderful like the married people think it will be. Just as being married is not as wonderful as the single people think it will be. Neither scenario is perfect - both are difficult. Both have pros and cons. </p><p></p><p>Do you think there will be a man that is totally incapable of cheating? Not that you will ever know. Even if he tells you so. No, that is a risk everyone in a relationship takes. Man and woman alike. </p><p></p><p>Just take some time and figure out what would make you happy so you can let him know. If he can no longer add positive aspects to your life - than you need to consider ending the relationship. </p><p></p><p>You have a right to decide to stay - even if most people think you should not or think they would not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 71523, member: 391"] I am not quite sure why everyone is so intent on this marriage being dissolved. I do believe the man is wrong. But, does that mean he is a horrible person? I agree his timing IS horrible. He should feel the pain of his mistake and somehow come to realize just how wrong he is. But, to end a 27 year marriage? Not over one infidelity. Sorry. I just do not get that. Now, if the love is gone or the man was already on the edge of separation... There were problems Kfld told us everything was not great for years now. But, I do not think she should throw away 27 years with her husband for a mistake. The marriage should be worked on and efforts made by both parties to figure out what will make the other happy at this point in the marriage. It will be much different than 27 years ago or even 5 years ago. Let me tell you it is not always greener on the other side. Being single is not all wonderful like the married people think it will be. Just as being married is not as wonderful as the single people think it will be. Neither scenario is perfect - both are difficult. Both have pros and cons. Do you think there will be a man that is totally incapable of cheating? Not that you will ever know. Even if he tells you so. No, that is a risk everyone in a relationship takes. Man and woman alike. Just take some time and figure out what would make you happy so you can let him know. If he can no longer add positive aspects to your life - than you need to consider ending the relationship. You have a right to decide to stay - even if most people think you should not or think they would not. [/QUOTE]
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