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Of course he makes me feel guilty
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<blockquote data-quote="wakeupcall" data-source="post: 71868" data-attributes="member: 2287"><p>Karen, through most of this situation in your life I've been silent. I just plain do not know what to say. I've been married 37 years and they have been okay......not great, just okay. No, we never fight, he doesn't drink, he doesn't abuse me in any way or our children, I find I just plain don't want to be married to him. Actually, he's quite pleasant and does lots for me.....I just plain don't want to be married to him. At any given time if there was a BIG reason to walk, I think I would. BUT a few years ago I WAS presented a BIG reason to walk and I didn't. I was afraid for my financial future and that of our difficult child, and because I'm older, too. FOR now, I stay....but it's probably not forever. Don't hurry with any decision you may be contemplating, either way. Just be patient with yourself and YOU will decide what you have to do. I hurt for you and I'm afraid for you....life isn't fair, is it?</p><p></p><p>I hope you are able to sleep. Losing your mom is hard enough to deal with without all this, too. I'm sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wakeupcall, post: 71868, member: 2287"] Karen, through most of this situation in your life I've been silent. I just plain do not know what to say. I've been married 37 years and they have been okay......not great, just okay. No, we never fight, he doesn't drink, he doesn't abuse me in any way or our children, I find I just plain don't want to be married to him. Actually, he's quite pleasant and does lots for me.....I just plain don't want to be married to him. At any given time if there was a BIG reason to walk, I think I would. BUT a few years ago I WAS presented a BIG reason to walk and I didn't. I was afraid for my financial future and that of our difficult child, and because I'm older, too. FOR now, I stay....but it's probably not forever. Don't hurry with any decision you may be contemplating, either way. Just be patient with yourself and YOU will decide what you have to do. I hurt for you and I'm afraid for you....life isn't fair, is it? I hope you are able to sleep. Losing your mom is hard enough to deal with without all this, too. I'm sorry. [/QUOTE]
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