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Of course he makes me feel guilty
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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 72074" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>Pamela, </p><p>This is exactly what I don't want to do. I feel this is my chance to truley decide what I want to do for me, and I cannot let myself be influenced by finances or anything else. I don't want to be doing this in another 10 years and be thinking, why didn't I get out when I had the chance. My husband doesn't think he has done anything to add to the problems in our marriage. He truley believes it's all me and he's so sure of that, he won't even go to counseling. To me that means he's not going to change anything, because he doesn't believe theres anything to change, but that I need to do all the changing. We've done this for years and I won't allow him to make me feel inadequate or like there is something wrong me me anymore. The more I hear him describe to people what our problems our, the more I realize this. My sister in law walked in on him talking to his mom last night and pretty much telling her it's just all me and she came out and said to me, if I were you, I would leave him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 72074, member: 2442"] Pamela, This is exactly what I don't want to do. I feel this is my chance to truley decide what I want to do for me, and I cannot let myself be influenced by finances or anything else. I don't want to be doing this in another 10 years and be thinking, why didn't I get out when I had the chance. My husband doesn't think he has done anything to add to the problems in our marriage. He truley believes it's all me and he's so sure of that, he won't even go to counseling. To me that means he's not going to change anything, because he doesn't believe theres anything to change, but that I need to do all the changing. We've done this for years and I won't allow him to make me feel inadequate or like there is something wrong me me anymore. The more I hear him describe to people what our problems our, the more I realize this. My sister in law walked in on him talking to his mom last night and pretty much telling her it's just all me and she came out and said to me, if I were you, I would leave him. [/QUOTE]
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