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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 146613" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Can ANYONE help you out right now? Your parents difficult child's bio-Dad? I know it isn't what you want long term, but you need a break and what good are you to difficult child if you aren't there for him, emotionally, mentally or at all one day? </p><p>I have had to ask my in-laws for help a few times when I was not doing well, your situation is so much more, but they are not very good at helping, AT ALL. </p><p>They make things so much worse... </p><p>But I would have been worse in the long run... way worse. </p><p>Sometimes we have to admit we need help, and ask those that we thought we never would... I don't know if you have any one else to ask? You need some support and some help. You need to help your self for a little bit, take a breather... re-access things without the added stress.</p><p>I know easier said than done. But maybe difficult child would be OK for little while? Would Bio-Dad maybe help???</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry... I wish I could just take it all away for you... I hate your suffering. I can only hope that one day you soon you will emerge from this and you will be even more beautiful and even more caring, empathetic and all of the things that we love about you... because you are.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 146613, member: 3155"] Can ANYONE help you out right now? Your parents difficult child's bio-Dad? I know it isn't what you want long term, but you need a break and what good are you to difficult child if you aren't there for him, emotionally, mentally or at all one day? I have had to ask my in-laws for help a few times when I was not doing well, your situation is so much more, but they are not very good at helping, AT ALL. They make things so much worse... But I would have been worse in the long run... way worse. Sometimes we have to admit we need help, and ask those that we thought we never would... I don't know if you have any one else to ask? You need some support and some help. You need to help your self for a little bit, take a breather... re-access things without the added stress. I know easier said than done. But maybe difficult child would be OK for little while? Would Bio-Dad maybe help??? I am so sorry... I wish I could just take it all away for you... I hate your suffering. I can only hope that one day you soon you will emerge from this and you will be even more beautiful and even more caring, empathetic and all of the things that we love about you... because you are. [/QUOTE]
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