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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 146967" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Steely,</p><p> </p><p>I am so very sorry. I know you are in a huge amount of pain. PLEASE find a psychiatrist, whether the therapist thinks you need one isn't the point.</p><p> </p><p>If you were not having job problems right now it would be unusual. You are in major stress, it impacts every part of your life.</p><p> </p><p>It is time to find a grief support group. They can be a LOT of help. Most funeral homes offer them, or at least know of them.</p><p> </p><p>While I did not know you or H personally, I have read all you posted about her, even before her death.</p><p> </p><p>I think YOU have not forgiven yourself. H truly loved you. She did NOT hold bad feelings over the abuse. She forgave you. It was clear in all you wrote about your interactions. H seemed to even understand that it was the actions of a child. NOT actions perpetrated by an adult who KNEW it was wrong.</p><p> </p><p>You are in crisis, not failure. All jobs have rough spots. Please, please, please seek help from a psychiatrist, a grief support group, a sexual abuse survivors group, and don't stop posting here. </p><p> </p><p>We care. We will be here for you any day, any time.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs and love,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 146967, member: 1233"] Steely, I am so very sorry. I know you are in a huge amount of pain. PLEASE find a psychiatrist, whether the therapist thinks you need one isn't the point. If you were not having job problems right now it would be unusual. You are in major stress, it impacts every part of your life. It is time to find a grief support group. They can be a LOT of help. Most funeral homes offer them, or at least know of them. While I did not know you or H personally, I have read all you posted about her, even before her death. I think YOU have not forgiven yourself. H truly loved you. She did NOT hold bad feelings over the abuse. She forgave you. It was clear in all you wrote about your interactions. H seemed to even understand that it was the actions of a child. NOT actions perpetrated by an adult who KNEW it was wrong. You are in crisis, not failure. All jobs have rough spots. Please, please, please seek help from a psychiatrist, a grief support group, a sexual abuse survivors group, and don't stop posting here. We care. We will be here for you any day, any time. Hugs and love, Susie [/QUOTE]
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