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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 284899" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. This is sad--when a easy child suddenly starts doing the difficult child <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" />.</p><p></p><p>I can only relay that my own daughter--the famous one who took drugs and quit--would not go to counseling either after a few times of snowing her therapist. It didn't matter because she didn't talk to him anyway. It's unlikely you could make your daughter talk either. Unfortunately, by 16, if they don't want help there isn't a whole lot you can do to make them accept it. We tried and tried. I have a few suggestions though that could get her court mandated help maybe (not sure, since my daughter was a drug user and that was partly why she was finally forced to see another counselor whom she also snowed and wouldn't talk to).</p><p></p><p>If your daughter is out after curfew, call the cops. I did that. If she breaks the law in any way, again call the cops. She can NOT do whatever she wants to do. She is a minor and there are laws. If the police get involved it can actually help you get her services and she won't have a choice. Are drugs involved here? That makes a big difference. A sudden change in behavior is any teen soooooooooo makes me think it's drugs--it's like a little alarm bell goes off in my head. <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/anxious.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":anxious:" title="anxious :anxious:" data-shortname=":anxious:" /> I'm so sorry about this. I've been there/done this and have gray hair under my hair dye because of it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 284899, member: 1550"] Hi there. This is sad--when a easy child suddenly starts doing the difficult child :frowny:. I can only relay that my own daughter--the famous one who took drugs and quit--would not go to counseling either after a few times of snowing her therapist. It didn't matter because she didn't talk to him anyway. It's unlikely you could make your daughter talk either. Unfortunately, by 16, if they don't want help there isn't a whole lot you can do to make them accept it. We tried and tried. I have a few suggestions though that could get her court mandated help maybe (not sure, since my daughter was a drug user and that was partly why she was finally forced to see another counselor whom she also snowed and wouldn't talk to). If your daughter is out after curfew, call the cops. I did that. If she breaks the law in any way, again call the cops. She can NOT do whatever she wants to do. She is a minor and there are laws. If the police get involved it can actually help you get her services and she won't have a choice. Are drugs involved here? That makes a big difference. A sudden change in behavior is any teen soooooooooo makes me think it's drugs--it's like a little alarm bell goes off in my head. :anxious: I'm so sorry about this. I've been there/done this and have gray hair under my hair dye because of it. [/QUOTE]
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