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<blockquote data-quote="blackgnat" data-source="post: 657651" data-attributes="member: 13561"><p>Phone call today: (his words in italics)</p><p></p><p><em>Mom, when are you coming out here for a visit?</em></p><p><em></em></p><p> (I tell him the tentative dates).</p><p></p><p><em>I want you to see how desperately I'm living. I want you to spend 24 no 36 hours with me , just to see what state I'm in and how much I need help. I am actually leaning towards more of a life of crime because I am so desperate</em>.</p><p></p><p>What kind of crime? (why did I ask?)</p><p></p><p><em>I'm breaking into cars and hoping I can get arrested and then go to jail, so then, the state will load up my card while I'm in jail and I will have money when I get to Illinois.</em></p><p> <em>I need to know that you will give me a ride back to Illinois so that I can get my medications and get my life back in order.</em></p><p></p><p>Do you have a bed?</p><p></p><p><em>No, but they have a transitional program (at the worst mission) and I think I can get in there and then transfer to the other mission which I'm willing to go to, because I know what it's like.</em></p><p></p><p>Well I think that you will do exactly the same in Illinois that you are doing in Colorado.</p><p></p><p>I don't see any change in your behavior. You will be relying on me to pull you out of situations you create.</p><p></p><p><em>No, I have learned a lot in jail. I am not going to ask you for help. I won't even contact you.</em></p><p></p><p>But you want me to give you a free ride back to Illinois?</p><p></p><p><em>Yes, I know that's asking for help, but when we get there, you just drop me where I need to go and then you won't hear from me again.</em></p><p></p><p>What about the 3 a.m. calls? From the ER, from a friend who wouldn't help you? When you don't know where the hell you are?</p><p></p><p><em>That's not going to happen. I've learned a lot.</em></p><p><em></em></p><p><em>So are you going to come out here and give me a ride back to Illinois?</em></p><p></p><p>"No, I don't think I am..."</p><p></p><p>He called me an obscene name and hung up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="blackgnat, post: 657651, member: 13561"] Phone call today: (his words in italics) [I]Mom, when are you coming out here for a visit? [/I] (I tell him the tentative dates). [I]I want you to see how desperately I'm living. I want you to spend 24 no 36 hours with me , just to see what state I'm in and how much I need help. I am actually leaning towards more of a life of crime because I am so desperate[/I]. What kind of crime? (why did I ask?) [I]I'm breaking into cars and hoping I can get arrested and then go to jail, so then, the state will load up my card while I'm in jail and I will have money when I get to Illinois. I need to know that you will give me a ride back to Illinois so that I can get my medications and get my life back in order.[/I] Do you have a bed? [I]No, but they have a transitional program (at the worst mission) and I think I can get in there and then transfer to the other mission which I'm willing to go to, because I know what it's like.[/I] Well I think that you will do exactly the same in Illinois that you are doing in Colorado. I don't see any change in your behavior. You will be relying on me to pull you out of situations you create. [I]No, I have learned a lot in jail. I am not going to ask you for help. I won't even contact you.[/I] But you want me to give you a free ride back to Illinois? [I]Yes, I know that's asking for help, but when we get there, you just drop me where I need to go and then you won't hear from me again.[/I] What about the 3 a.m. calls? From the ER, from a friend who wouldn't help you? When you don't know where the hell you are? [I]That's not going to happen. I've learned a lot. So are you going to come out here and give me a ride back to Illinois?[/I] "No, I don't think I am..." He called me an obscene name and hung up. [/QUOTE]
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