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OMG, his plan is to return here...
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 657719" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>BG, please heed the recommendations here. Could it be that you are numbed to it all? Somehow it's "normal" to you, and you start romanticizing that "this time" it will be different after you don't see him for a while? </p><p></p><p>That would be very normal to do. </p><p></p><p>The fact that he again has been arrested for unacceptable behavior is your signal I believe. He's not anywhere near ready. </p><p></p><p>And until he is ready to be ready, please don't even think about a relationship with him, of spending time with him, of anything. What would be the point, really? I know just seeing him is balm for our mommy hearts, but at what cost? </p><p></p><p>You will know when it's safe to see him again.</p><p></p><p>Please, please, please---it's all about you now. I hear you, that you have a good life, when you can detach from him. Keep on detaching. Keep on working for that. You are worth it. </p><p></p><p>I'm just sorry your son isn't ready for a relationship with you. Please keep your distance and take care of YOU.</p><p></p><p>Warm hugs BG.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 657719, member: 17542"] BG, please heed the recommendations here. Could it be that you are numbed to it all? Somehow it's "normal" to you, and you start romanticizing that "this time" it will be different after you don't see him for a while? That would be very normal to do. The fact that he again has been arrested for unacceptable behavior is your signal I believe. He's not anywhere near ready. And until he is ready to be ready, please don't even think about a relationship with him, of spending time with him, of anything. What would be the point, really? I know just seeing him is balm for our mommy hearts, but at what cost? You will know when it's safe to see him again. Please, please, please---it's all about you now. I hear you, that you have a good life, when you can detach from him. Keep on detaching. Keep on working for that. You are worth it. I'm just sorry your son isn't ready for a relationship with you. Please keep your distance and take care of YOU. Warm hugs BG. [/QUOTE]
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