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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 235282" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Sounds like your H has an addiction to porn. Pics of nude women is porn. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Porn works very well for ppl who can't deal with real intimacy, real emotions, or real life on face to face terms. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">I have been there done that with this issue and I can assure you - IT HAS NADA, NOTHING, NIL, ZIP, ZILCH, ABSOLUTELY WHATSOEVER, IN ANY WAY, TO DO WITH YOU. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">That said, it doesn't help you feel better about yourself. We can't help but feel that an H's inattention has everything to do with us. But it doesn't. It's in their own psyche. Halle Berry is a prime example. Beautiful woman, right? Her stupid ex-h was addicted to sex and porn. Doesn't make sense does it? It was all about him. Not her. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">Discuss this and how you feel and your reaction to this issue with your therapist. It is very important that you understand how important it is to trust your gut reaction to how this affects your marriage and your personal self. </span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">It is not about what's acceptable by society on the whole, it's about what is acceptable to YOU and within the boundaries of your marriage. Some women don't have a problem with porn in their marriage and that is usually because it hasn't replaced the intimacy of the relationship. For others, it is a problem because the porn use has replaced the intimacy in a relationship - and I"m not just talking about physical intimacy; emotional as well.</span></span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslategray">(((kjs))) disconnect that line and nurture yourself. You don't need the attentions of H or any other man to make you feel beautiful or wanted or desired or lovely and sexy. You are all of those things and more. YOU have to see it, though, so work it out with your therapist. Sending many many hugs.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 235282, member: 2211"] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Sounds like your H has an addiction to porn. Pics of nude women is porn. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Porn works very well for ppl who can't deal with real intimacy, real emotions, or real life on face to face terms. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]I have been there done that with this issue and I can assure you - IT HAS NADA, NOTHING, NIL, ZIP, ZILCH, ABSOLUTELY WHATSOEVER, IN ANY WAY, TO DO WITH YOU. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]That said, it doesn't help you feel better about yourself. We can't help but feel that an H's inattention has everything to do with us. But it doesn't. It's in their own psyche. Halle Berry is a prime example. Beautiful woman, right? Her stupid ex-h was addicted to sex and porn. Doesn't make sense does it? It was all about him. Not her. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]Discuss this and how you feel and your reaction to this issue with your therapist. It is very important that you understand how important it is to trust your gut reaction to how this affects your marriage and your personal self. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray]It is not about what's acceptable by society on the whole, it's about what is acceptable to YOU and within the boundaries of your marriage. Some women don't have a problem with porn in their marriage and that is usually because it hasn't replaced the intimacy of the relationship. For others, it is a problem because the porn use has replaced the intimacy in a relationship - and I"m not just talking about physical intimacy; emotional as well.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Century Gothic][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslategray](((kjs))) disconnect that line and nurture yourself. You don't need the attentions of H or any other man to make you feel beautiful or wanted or desired or lovely and sexy. You are all of those things and more. YOU have to see it, though, so work it out with your therapist. Sending many many hugs.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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