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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 235411" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so very sorry you are hurting. If everyone at work does it, then they may ALL be in for a rude awakening if he works for a corporation. MOST of them have strict rules against this, and they DO fire people if they find out about this. It has happened here several times. It made a local paper because the man who was fired put up a stink because "everyone does it". It ended up with 6 people getting fired for this. And they were using their OWN phones. It was one town over (about 10 miles away maybe) and it was in their little local paper.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. This really sounds like an addiction. Does he have stuff in the basement he doesn't want you to look at or that he gets upset if you get into? I would be watchful for that, to see if the porn habit is growing. I would also check ANY computer he is using, or that difficult child is using. If he had difficult child set up his phone, and he seems to side with difficult child when things get lost and difficult child is yelling at you, he may enlist difficult child to "help" him find more of this stuff.</p><p></p><p>I would be going through "his" stuff when he is not home, just to see what is going on.</p><p></p><p>It does sound like he checked out of the marriage a while back. I think you should go to counseling whether he goes with you or not. </p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs for your hurting heart. </p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 235411, member: 1233"] I am so very sorry you are hurting. If everyone at work does it, then they may ALL be in for a rude awakening if he works for a corporation. MOST of them have strict rules against this, and they DO fire people if they find out about this. It has happened here several times. It made a local paper because the man who was fired put up a stink because "everyone does it". It ended up with 6 people getting fired for this. And they were using their OWN phones. It was one town over (about 10 miles away maybe) and it was in their little local paper. I am so sorry. This really sounds like an addiction. Does he have stuff in the basement he doesn't want you to look at or that he gets upset if you get into? I would be watchful for that, to see if the porn habit is growing. I would also check ANY computer he is using, or that difficult child is using. If he had difficult child set up his phone, and he seems to side with difficult child when things get lost and difficult child is yelling at you, he may enlist difficult child to "help" him find more of this stuff. I would be going through "his" stuff when he is not home, just to see what is going on. It does sound like he checked out of the marriage a while back. I think you should go to counseling whether he goes with you or not. Gentle hugs for your hurting heart. Susie [/QUOTE]
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