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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 465328" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Liahona, I think that was the point of Andy's advice. And I get that it's stressful, but have you ever been able to "manage" him and keep him from taking you to court? We know it's not about difficult child 1. It's all about him trying to exercise control over you, and that's exactly why he gets angrier when you don't allow it and keep redirecting him. He's getting angrier because his tactics are not working. The plus side is that most ppl (and it seems your X as well) get even more irrational the angrier they get. </p><p></p><p>Judges do get frustrated when ppl repeatedly file stupid motions, petitions, etc. Maybe next time the court will sanction him in some way. Maybe next time it will give you an opening to say that you want to limit visitation further due to this kind of harassment, or that you wish to have visitation fully supervised, etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 465328, member: 11965"] Liahona, I think that was the point of Andy's advice. And I get that it's stressful, but have you ever been able to "manage" him and keep him from taking you to court? We know it's not about difficult child 1. It's all about him trying to exercise control over you, and that's exactly why he gets angrier when you don't allow it and keep redirecting him. He's getting angrier because his tactics are not working. The plus side is that most ppl (and it seems your X as well) get even more irrational the angrier they get. Judges do get frustrated when ppl repeatedly file stupid motions, petitions, etc. Maybe next time the court will sanction him in some way. Maybe next time it will give you an opening to say that you want to limit visitation further due to this kind of harassment, or that you wish to have visitation fully supervised, etc. [/QUOTE]
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