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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 465454"><p>Yes. The going to court every few years is managing him. I have a great lawyer that does manage to keep me out of court a lot. If it weren't for him we'd be in court every few months. Things have been escalating with him lately; which is why I think we'll end up in court soon. Just tonight difficult child 1 told me X is going to get him a gun for his 12th birthday. X is constantly hanging something over difficult child 1's head trying to get me to respond to him. This is such a bad idea even difficult child 1 is upset about it. If he actually does it first, he is a bigger idiot than I thought (lets give the kid that hallucinates a weapon) and second I'll have to take him to court. This is 6 months down the road though. So I'm not going to respond to it until he actually does it. He just keeps pushing until I have to respond. Last week it was gifts for my other kids and phone calls not at his appointed time. I'm going to do as Susie says and keep living my life. It does drive him nuts. At the same time though being detached from him takes effort on my part. I get so PTSDish it is hard for me to function. I just have to let myself have my day of PTSD and then pick myself up and keep going. </p><p></p><p>You guys are great at letting me vent here. Thank-you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 465454"] Yes. The going to court every few years is managing him. I have a great lawyer that does manage to keep me out of court a lot. If it weren't for him we'd be in court every few months. Things have been escalating with him lately; which is why I think we'll end up in court soon. Just tonight difficult child 1 told me X is going to get him a gun for his 12th birthday. X is constantly hanging something over difficult child 1's head trying to get me to respond to him. This is such a bad idea even difficult child 1 is upset about it. If he actually does it first, he is a bigger idiot than I thought (lets give the kid that hallucinates a weapon) and second I'll have to take him to court. This is 6 months down the road though. So I'm not going to respond to it until he actually does it. He just keeps pushing until I have to respond. Last week it was gifts for my other kids and phone calls not at his appointed time. I'm going to do as Susie says and keep living my life. It does drive him nuts. At the same time though being detached from him takes effort on my part. I get so PTSDish it is hard for me to function. I just have to let myself have my day of PTSD and then pick myself up and keep going. You guys are great at letting me vent here. Thank-you. [/QUOTE]
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