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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 536219" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>I would not worry too much about it. I know who you are talking about (although I'm not sure of their exact qualifications and education) and they are not educators. Those are safety rules, sanitary rules, ratio, etc. type things. You will find those people everywhere: the ones who know best, who raised x amount of kids, who knows the special need child of a cousin's friend. The reality: unless they have at least a Master's in Special Education, or are parent of a special need child themselves, I could care less about what they have to say.</p><p>Talking about punishment, I don't punish V either. I tend to withdraw him from the situation and just ask him to come back when he is ready. There are no set amount of time, I let him decide. If he destroys something, it is simply not replaced (natural consequence). </p><p>I'm sure you take some kind of action when J is not appropriate. If you want to be more socially proper in your environment, just call this action "punishment" even if technically it is not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 536219, member: 11847"] I would not worry too much about it. I know who you are talking about (although I'm not sure of their exact qualifications and education) and they are not educators. Those are safety rules, sanitary rules, ratio, etc. type things. You will find those people everywhere: the ones who know best, who raised x amount of kids, who knows the special need child of a cousin's friend. The reality: unless they have at least a Master's in Special Education, or are parent of a special need child themselves, I could care less about what they have to say. Talking about punishment, I don't punish V either. I tend to withdraw him from the situation and just ask him to come back when he is ready. There are no set amount of time, I let him decide. If he destroys something, it is simply not replaced (natural consequence). I'm sure you take some kind of action when J is not appropriate. If you want to be more socially proper in your environment, just call this action "punishment" even if technically it is not. [/QUOTE]
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