After nearly a month of bliss, (honeymoon after hospitalization) difficult child had a meltdown last night after not being allowed to have a 2nd lolipop. husband was trapped in the bedroom for nearly an hour because she was banging and kicking on the door trying to get to the forbidden lolipops. Well she calmed down and I guess was saving her energy for round 2 cause she got wound up again after she asked for pudding and I said no. I called the emergency numbers I was given and did as they suggested and called the police, yet again. (we're waiting on Residential Treatment Center (RTC)) She used her feeling chart this morning and put it on "feeling guilty" Knowing this, I asked her what we could have done that would have changed the way last night played out, with the ususal response of I don't know. I did ask for an apology, but don't think I will get it. Is this an unrealistic expectation?