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<blockquote data-quote="Debdeb1031" data-source="post: 100670" data-attributes="member: 4030"><p>thanks everyone...</p><p></p><p>golden...to answer the questions...this is the first time he has pulled an all nighter...other women have never been an issue that i know of...however we haven't fooled around for quite some time...he has been a drinker his whole life...friends from work are the same way...rushing to the bar every break they can get during work and running there everyday after...his friend larry likes to give him the zanex which really seems to mess a person up when they are drinking...they think nothing of exchanging different types of pills...that happens once in a while...when he is sober he treats me and the kids like gold...when he comes home if he only had beer that day, he is fine...it's when he starts with the shots of jack daniels (i refer to as devil juice) that he becomes a different man (loud and you can't have a conversation with him-not because he is slurring but because he is just an <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />) of course those times after he has passed out, i help myself to some cash in his pockets for something for me and the kids...shameful i know, but i figured if he could waste his money in the bar, then i can waste it on something fun and frivolous for me and the kids...&lt;snicker&gt; he doesn't remember what he had left anyway...as far as what i should do?? i don't know...i love him and i hate him...its just that i am at the point where if i hear the word bar or beer i cringe...when i first met him, i was on the path of becoming like him...i would drink with him all the time...but it got old fast for me..now mabey if i go out i have one drink if at all...when he is sober he realizes that he has a problem then i hear all the words how he is going to change and how me and the kids are the most important thing in the world to him yada yada yada...it seems to me a man's word is S - - - ...</p><p></p><p>alyssa..thanks for the hit home story...he is so worth wanting to change...</p><p></p><p>Suz...he does admit he has a problem, and he does say he wants to change, but then he goes to work with his friends who are just like him, and i believe they put in his head that i am controlling him...cause when he drinks excessively he says that he will never change and to love him like he is </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>BBK.. thanks for the advice....i believe he would never hurt us in the physical sense...mentally i'm not sure...however the kids don't know that he is drunk when he is...they just continue to worship the water he walks on...they love him so much (sometimes i think more than their biological father) and on a different note...you have the personality of a goddess!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Debdeb1031, post: 100670, member: 4030"] thanks everyone... golden...to answer the questions...this is the first time he has pulled an all nighter...other women have never been an issue that i know of...however we haven't fooled around for quite some time...he has been a drinker his whole life...friends from work are the same way...rushing to the bar every break they can get during work and running there everyday after...his friend larry likes to give him the zanex which really seems to mess a person up when they are drinking...they think nothing of exchanging different types of pills...that happens once in a while...when he is sober he treats me and the kids like gold...when he comes home if he only had beer that day, he is fine...it's when he starts with the shots of jack daniels (i refer to as devil juice) that he becomes a different man (loud and you can't have a conversation with him-not because he is slurring but because he is just an :censored2:) of course those times after he has passed out, i help myself to some cash in his pockets for something for me and the kids...shameful i know, but i figured if he could waste his money in the bar, then i can waste it on something fun and frivolous for me and the kids...<snicker> he doesn't remember what he had left anyway...as far as what i should do?? i don't know...i love him and i hate him...its just that i am at the point where if i hear the word bar or beer i cringe...when i first met him, i was on the path of becoming like him...i would drink with him all the time...but it got old fast for me..now mabey if i go out i have one drink if at all...when he is sober he realizes that he has a problem then i hear all the words how he is going to change and how me and the kids are the most important thing in the world to him yada yada yada...it seems to me a man's word is S - - - ... alyssa..thanks for the hit home story...he is so worth wanting to change... Suz...he does admit he has a problem, and he does say he wants to change, but then he goes to work with his friends who are just like him, and i believe they put in his head that i am controlling him...cause when he drinks excessively he says that he will never change and to love him like he is BBK.. thanks for the advice....i believe he would never hurt us in the physical sense...mentally i'm not sure...however the kids don't know that he is drunk when he is...they just continue to worship the water he walks on...they love him so much (sometimes i think more than their biological father) and on a different note...you have the personality of a goddess!!!! [/QUOTE]
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