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<blockquote data-quote="goldenguru" data-source="post: 100682" data-attributes="member: 1545"><p>So just to recap your own words:</p><p></p><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Debdeb1031</div><div class="ubbcode-body"></p><p><strong>he has been a drinker his whole life...</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>his friend larry likes to give him the zanex they think nothing of exchanging different types of pills...</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>it's when he starts with the shots of jack daniels (i refer to as devil juice) that he becomes a different man (loud and you can't have a conversation with him-not because he is slurring but because he is just an <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />) </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>he doesn't remember what he had left anyway...</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>i love him and i hate him...</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>when he is sober he realizes that he has a problem </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>when he drinks excessively he says that he will never change and to love him like he is </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>however the kids don't know that he is drunk when he is...</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p></p><p> </div></div></p><p></p><p>My thoughts?</p><p></p><p>Drinking his whole life is not a good sign. Blacking out is not a good sign. An obnoxious drunk? Love/hate thing is not a good sign. By his own admission he says he will never change - not a good sign.</p><p></p><p>Lastly - your kids know more than you realize. I have memories of being 4 years old and understanding in my little mind that things were not right. If your kids don't realize the whole picture it is just a matter of time before they do.</p><p></p><p>Your SO needs to get help. You need to get support to deal with SO. in my humble opinion. Try an AlAnon meeting soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="goldenguru, post: 100682, member: 1545"] So just to recap your own words: <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Debdeb1031</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> [b]he has been a drinker his whole life... his friend larry likes to give him the zanex they think nothing of exchanging different types of pills... it's when he starts with the shots of jack daniels (i refer to as devil juice) that he becomes a different man (loud and you can't have a conversation with him-not because he is slurring but because he is just an :censored2:) he doesn't remember what he had left anyway... i love him and i hate him... when he is sober he realizes that he has a problem when he drinks excessively he says that he will never change and to love him like he is however the kids don't know that he is drunk when he is... [/b] </div></div> My thoughts? Drinking his whole life is not a good sign. Blacking out is not a good sign. An obnoxious drunk? Love/hate thing is not a good sign. By his own admission he says he will never change - not a good sign. Lastly - your kids know more than you realize. I have memories of being 4 years old and understanding in my little mind that things were not right. If your kids don't realize the whole picture it is just a matter of time before they do. Your SO needs to get help. You need to get support to deal with SO. in my humble opinion. Try an AlAnon meeting soon. [/QUOTE]
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