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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 415772" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Two teens? Ok.......keep door open, no biggie.</p><p></p><p>A teen and a 25 yr old woman? I'd be hauling her fanny outta my house so fast........after making it perfectly clear if I caught her so much as thinking about<strong> my</strong> kid that we'd have the<strong> most painful humiliating discussion</strong> of her life! </p><p></p><p>Due to difficult children, not much shocks me and on most things I can pretty much go with the flow. boyfriend/girlfriend sleepovers? Nope. Won't happen. Don't happen. I don't care if you're 16 or 46. Not in my house. I'm not a prude in any sense of the word. But I just don't go for that sort of thing. Even when Nichole's boyfriend's mom tossed him out over an argument......he slept on the couch in the family room. And I guarantee he did as I'm an insomniac (look at the time on this post lol) and I kept a very close eye on him. Which many people think ridiculous as the kids had Aubrey already. </p><p></p><p>But in my opinion a teen with a 25 yr old you're sending the wrong message in big bold red letters. (and yes I totally get your husband's point of view) This *cough* woman obviously has some big difficult child issues going on if she's going for underage boys. (usually a control thing) Last thing your son needs mixed up in.........and the last thing you should be reinforcing by allowing her to stay or even be in his room. Me? She wouldn't be allowed near him.</p><p></p><p>Why? Katie for one. Her mom did this with M. I could still strangle her for her stupidity. </p><p></p><p>Of course this is just my opinion based on my experiences. In the end you've got to decide what's best for you to do.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 415772, member: 84"] Two teens? Ok.......keep door open, no biggie. A teen and a 25 yr old woman? I'd be hauling her fanny outta my house so fast........after making it perfectly clear if I caught her so much as thinking about[B] my[/B] kid that we'd have the[B] most painful humiliating discussion[/B] of her life! Due to difficult children, not much shocks me and on most things I can pretty much go with the flow. boyfriend/girlfriend sleepovers? Nope. Won't happen. Don't happen. I don't care if you're 16 or 46. Not in my house. I'm not a prude in any sense of the word. But I just don't go for that sort of thing. Even when Nichole's boyfriend's mom tossed him out over an argument......he slept on the couch in the family room. And I guarantee he did as I'm an insomniac (look at the time on this post lol) and I kept a very close eye on him. Which many people think ridiculous as the kids had Aubrey already. But in my opinion a teen with a 25 yr old you're sending the wrong message in big bold red letters. (and yes I totally get your husband's point of view) This *cough* woman obviously has some big difficult child issues going on if she's going for underage boys. (usually a control thing) Last thing your son needs mixed up in.........and the last thing you should be reinforcing by allowing her to stay or even be in his room. Me? She wouldn't be allowed near him. Why? Katie for one. Her mom did this with M. I could still strangle her for her stupidity. Of course this is just my opinion based on my experiences. In the end you've got to decide what's best for you to do. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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