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OUT OF CONTROL 15 y.o. with- ODD
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<blockquote data-quote="tara w" data-source="post: 48047" data-attributes="member: 3787"><p>katmom...</p><p>i think you hit the perverbial "nail." as i've said before, the love is unconditional. i don't know if i should be ashamed to admit this, but i give more to him than my bio nieces. i guess that's why it's so hard to understand WHY they do what they do when they are loved so very much.</p><p></p><p>how could they steal from people they "love"? how could they lie and deceive people who love them. sometimes i feel like he uses "i love you" as an excuse and he doesn't really know what those words mean. he uses those three words to make himself feel better- like no matter what he does, evrything's o.k. again.</p><p></p><p>i admit, i'm a fool at times. i don't know when to set limits because i'm afraid he'll feel rejected. i would NEVER let my bio nieces treat me the way he treats me. </p><p></p><p>when do you stop feeling sorry? when do you stop allowing what happened in his past to affect how he treats people in the present???</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tara w, post: 48047, member: 3787"] katmom... i think you hit the perverbial "nail." as i've said before, the love is unconditional. i don't know if i should be ashamed to admit this, but i give more to him than my bio nieces. i guess that's why it's so hard to understand WHY they do what they do when they are loved so very much. how could they steal from people they "love"? how could they lie and deceive people who love them. sometimes i feel like he uses "i love you" as an excuse and he doesn't really know what those words mean. he uses those three words to make himself feel better- like no matter what he does, evrything's o.k. again. i admit, i'm a fool at times. i don't know when to set limits because i'm afraid he'll feel rejected. i would NEVER let my bio nieces treat me the way he treats me. when do you stop feeling sorry? when do you stop allowing what happened in his past to affect how he treats people in the present??? [/QUOTE]
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