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<blockquote data-quote="cutietwinkletoes" data-source="post: 406425" data-attributes="member: 11122"><p>Thankyou to those who have posted support, I am 25 my husband is 26 we have been married coming up 3 years in June, our son is 5 months old currently I am in talks with a Lawyer about the outcome if I leave, due to lovely family laws here I need permission from my husband before I can leave cities or else he could charge me with Kidnapping our son, and I am certain that if I leave his parents will label me crazy in order to try gain custody for their son, I am not entirely threatened by this as majority of the time the children go to the mother and since I am a stay at home mum any competent judge will see fit to keep him with me, my own family is disfunctional and I get little support from them they are also of low decile origins, whereas my husbands family are affluent. I have no where to go as majority of my support is too far away and I cannot afford to fly home at this time and I dont have many friends where I live most are solo mums who are still at home with their families. I am still looking for options if I leave I dont really want to give up on my marriage as I love my husband alot and he is great with our son but if his parents are not going to back off then I cannot take it and I dont think its fair his mother winning all the time because it means my hubby will never have a normal life or relationship unless mummy allows it which by looking at my situation it is never going to happen any suggestions on how to confront the inlaws at my family conference I feel I need to rig up as a one last fight to see what changes if that does not improve the situation I am going to leave I also do not know how to get it thru my hubbys skull that he needs to make a choice what he wants and stand by that choice so that if he chooses his family over the one he has created then it makes my descsion more final, thanks again for support I am feeling alot more cheered up</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cutietwinkletoes, post: 406425, member: 11122"] Thankyou to those who have posted support, I am 25 my husband is 26 we have been married coming up 3 years in June, our son is 5 months old currently I am in talks with a Lawyer about the outcome if I leave, due to lovely family laws here I need permission from my husband before I can leave cities or else he could charge me with Kidnapping our son, and I am certain that if I leave his parents will label me crazy in order to try gain custody for their son, I am not entirely threatened by this as majority of the time the children go to the mother and since I am a stay at home mum any competent judge will see fit to keep him with me, my own family is disfunctional and I get little support from them they are also of low decile origins, whereas my husbands family are affluent. I have no where to go as majority of my support is too far away and I cannot afford to fly home at this time and I dont have many friends where I live most are solo mums who are still at home with their families. I am still looking for options if I leave I dont really want to give up on my marriage as I love my husband alot and he is great with our son but if his parents are not going to back off then I cannot take it and I dont think its fair his mother winning all the time because it means my hubby will never have a normal life or relationship unless mummy allows it which by looking at my situation it is never going to happen any suggestions on how to confront the inlaws at my family conference I feel I need to rig up as a one last fight to see what changes if that does not improve the situation I am going to leave I also do not know how to get it thru my hubbys skull that he needs to make a choice what he wants and stand by that choice so that if he chooses his family over the one he has created then it makes my descsion more final, thanks again for support I am feeling alot more cheered up [/QUOTE]
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