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<blockquote data-quote="ShyChelle" data-source="post: 296821" data-attributes="member: 7270"><p>Thank you for your responses. As far as his background goes he most probably has Bi-Polar. He has been diagnosed with odd, adhd and his therapist believes he has a mood disorder. He was raped by my brother's friend around 8 to 10 years of age. I didn't find this out until last November. He has seen violence done to others by my step dad. I was young when I had him and at times in his life had to live with my mother because of financial and other issues. There truly was no where else for me to go. He has few friends. He is possesive of both me and his girlfriend. He has become increasingly possessive of me in the last few months. He wants to know where I am going and if I leave and he doesn't know he asks me where I went and why I left. He monitors what I do to some extent. He is literally freaking me out. He threatens me on a regular basis and justifies it by something. He apolgizes but I am so worn out from it all. He now has his girlfriend living with us. I am fearful when they break up he is going to go nuts. Since he normally takes everything out on me I am sure I will get the brunt of it. I actually fear for my life at times. I fear for his life as well. Those are the two constinent themes in his threats. He will take my life and his. </p><p> </p><p>I have called the police in the past. Since I live in a small town they are reluctant to do anything. Last time I had to have his PO tell them to take him and even then they were reluctant. They have no where to house minors and have to transport them to the larger town 30 minutes away. Normally they just take a report, take him to the holding house where I have to pay money to get him out within 30 minutes of him being there and take him home or get slapped with abandonment charges. So it feels kind of like a no win situation when calling the police since they don't really help me and normally nothing is done. The only time charges have been seriously taken were when my son got into a fight with my parents, and when he got into an altercation with the principle. I don't really like the idea of him going to jail but I am at a loss of what to do to protect myself. He has 8 months till he turns 18. I don't like the idea of him being on the streets but I really not sure what to do. He steals, lies, is a bully and intimidates to get his way. Just really frustrated and don't know how to find some peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ShyChelle, post: 296821, member: 7270"] Thank you for your responses. As far as his background goes he most probably has Bi-Polar. He has been diagnosed with odd, adhd and his therapist believes he has a mood disorder. He was raped by my brother's friend around 8 to 10 years of age. I didn't find this out until last November. He has seen violence done to others by my step dad. I was young when I had him and at times in his life had to live with my mother because of financial and other issues. There truly was no where else for me to go. He has few friends. He is possesive of both me and his girlfriend. He has become increasingly possessive of me in the last few months. He wants to know where I am going and if I leave and he doesn't know he asks me where I went and why I left. He monitors what I do to some extent. He is literally freaking me out. He threatens me on a regular basis and justifies it by something. He apolgizes but I am so worn out from it all. He now has his girlfriend living with us. I am fearful when they break up he is going to go nuts. Since he normally takes everything out on me I am sure I will get the brunt of it. I actually fear for my life at times. I fear for his life as well. Those are the two constinent themes in his threats. He will take my life and his. I have called the police in the past. Since I live in a small town they are reluctant to do anything. Last time I had to have his PO tell them to take him and even then they were reluctant. They have no where to house minors and have to transport them to the larger town 30 minutes away. Normally they just take a report, take him to the holding house where I have to pay money to get him out within 30 minutes of him being there and take him home or get slapped with abandonment charges. So it feels kind of like a no win situation when calling the police since they don't really help me and normally nothing is done. The only time charges have been seriously taken were when my son got into a fight with my parents, and when he got into an altercation with the principle. I don't really like the idea of him going to jail but I am at a loss of what to do to protect myself. He has 8 months till he turns 18. I don't like the idea of him being on the streets but I really not sure what to do. He steals, lies, is a bully and intimidates to get his way. Just really frustrated and don't know how to find some peace. [/QUOTE]
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