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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 296840" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Get off the computer. Call the police. Tell them that you REFUSE to live with him because he is abusing you.</p><p></p><p>You are in a classic situation of abuse. He has isolated you, monitors your movements, and now has escalated to physical abuse.</p><p></p><p>The only difference is that he is a child abusing his mother, not a boyfriend abusing a girlfriend.</p><p></p><p>If the police refuse to take him then call a domestic violence number and ask where to go for shelter. Move into the shelter for a few days/weeks until you can get him out of your home.</p><p></p><p>If the police take him you will have to go stand before a judge and tell him what has been happening. Tell the judge that you fear for your life and safety and you cannot live in the same home, that you need to have him taken over by the courts.</p><p></p><p>I mean it. NOW. Go get the phone and call the police. </p><p></p><p>If you wait on this it is only going to get worse, LOTS worse PDQ.</p><p></p><p>You can tell the police/Sheriff that he cannot stay. I did this with my oldest several years ago. It broke my heart to do it. But I couldn't let my other kids live in fear, live in fear myself, or risk my difficult child doing permanent damage and having to cope with the guilty feelings if someone died.</p><p></p><p>PLEASE CALL THE POLICE NOW!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 296840, member: 1233"] Get off the computer. Call the police. Tell them that you REFUSE to live with him because he is abusing you. You are in a classic situation of abuse. He has isolated you, monitors your movements, and now has escalated to physical abuse. The only difference is that he is a child abusing his mother, not a boyfriend abusing a girlfriend. If the police refuse to take him then call a domestic violence number and ask where to go for shelter. Move into the shelter for a few days/weeks until you can get him out of your home. If the police take him you will have to go stand before a judge and tell him what has been happening. Tell the judge that you fear for your life and safety and you cannot live in the same home, that you need to have him taken over by the courts. I mean it. NOW. Go get the phone and call the police. If you wait on this it is only going to get worse, LOTS worse PDQ. You can tell the police/Sheriff that he cannot stay. I did this with my oldest several years ago. It broke my heart to do it. But I couldn't let my other kids live in fear, live in fear myself, or risk my difficult child doing permanent damage and having to cope with the guilty feelings if someone died. PLEASE CALL THE POLICE NOW! [/QUOTE]
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