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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 296842"><p>I agree, no one deserves to be abused. If you feel you are in danger, you must call the police. Also, do you have any good friends or is the boy's father able to help you? This does not mean you shouldn't call the police, but you might ask a friend for help.</p><p> </p><p>When our kids are teens, sometimes parents will partially tolerate certain outburts momentarily....consequences pending. However, a red flag should be flown.</p><p> </p><p>AND lines need to be drawn. Boundaries established. </p><p> </p><p>I would not put up with ugly dissparging remarks, would say so and would incorporate consequences if it were to continue.</p><p> </p><p>And I absolutely, positively would not put up with physical violence for a second and would call the police in a heartbeat. PLEASE call the police and see if they have trained personal to come to your home to offer assistance if you feel unsafe now or at any time.</p><p> </p><p>Additionally, is your son seeing a physician for medication? Perhaps if he is on the right medication, this might help to a certain extent.</p><p> </p><p>However, he really really needs to understand that violence is not going to be acceptable. This needs to be crystal clear. No ifs and or buts. If he strikes you, you are calling the police. Period.</p><p> </p><p>Are you seeing a therapist to develop a coping plan for this situation?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 296842"] I agree, no one deserves to be abused. If you feel you are in danger, you must call the police. Also, do you have any good friends or is the boy's father able to help you? This does not mean you shouldn't call the police, but you might ask a friend for help. When our kids are teens, sometimes parents will partially tolerate certain outburts momentarily....consequences pending. However, a red flag should be flown. AND lines need to be drawn. Boundaries established. I would not put up with ugly dissparging remarks, would say so and would incorporate consequences if it were to continue. And I absolutely, positively would not put up with physical violence for a second and would call the police in a heartbeat. PLEASE call the police and see if they have trained personal to come to your home to offer assistance if you feel unsafe now or at any time. Additionally, is your son seeing a physician for medication? Perhaps if he is on the right medication, this might help to a certain extent. However, he really really needs to understand that violence is not going to be acceptable. This needs to be crystal clear. No ifs and or buts. If he strikes you, you are calling the police. Period. Are you seeing a therapist to develop a coping plan for this situation? [/QUOTE]
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