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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 305833" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>How are you doing today???</p><p></p><p>I am in Oklahoma. I missed that in my first reply. I went through some of this with Wiz (my difficult child). My husband worked and hour and a half away so he missed a lot of what went on. Wiz LOVED to headbutt me because the cops all told him "hands off" and he didn't use his hands.</p><p></p><p>I finally realized I was a battered woman. I was starting to think like one. There was a lot of other drama going on, and I slid into that way of thinking gradually. I will NOT be a battered woman. Not with anyone doing the hitting. I called the cops the first time because he went on a rant at husband and I about how husband needed to ASK HIS PERMISSION to hold my hand!!!</p><p></p><p>WTF???? No Way. husband is his bio father and we have alway held hands, cuddled, etc... Wiz went on a rage, ending up in the bathroom trying to break the large mirror to kill himself with the glass. I called 911 and he calmed down.</p><p></p><p>The deputy spoke with him long and hard. Told him he could end up in a certain facility (a juvenile facility for very violent kids). Rader is scary. The guards are vicious. The deputy talked us into allowing Wiz to stay. I told him if I called again for violence or threats of violence they would have to remove him from the property. Period. I would press charges.</p><p></p><p>They hemmed and hawed over that and left.</p><p></p><p>A couple of weeks later he headbutted me, knocking me back into our bar. I had a big bruise on my back and was extremely sore. I had jessie call 911.</p><p></p><p>This time I refused to let him stay here. I told the deputy he had a chance. he got physical with me and I wanted to press charges. Period. I also said that if he stayed here one of us would end up dead at Wiz' hands. </p><p></p><p>So they took him. deputy never did write up the charges. Not in 2 MONTHS of court dates.</p><p></p><p>It is torture to stand in front of the judge and tell him what happened. i wrote it out in a letter, along with what all we had done to help Wiz.</p><p></p><p>So they may not WANT to take him, but you CAN insist. It just takes persistence and a refusal to change your mind. So what if they have to take him 30 miles away? In a big city, like Dallas or Cincinnati (where I used to live) every facility is that far or farther from most places. </p><p></p><p>PM me if you need someone to chat with, or someone in OK to call. I will send you my number if you want to talk.</p><p></p><p>many hugs!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 305833, member: 1233"] How are you doing today??? I am in Oklahoma. I missed that in my first reply. I went through some of this with Wiz (my difficult child). My husband worked and hour and a half away so he missed a lot of what went on. Wiz LOVED to headbutt me because the cops all told him "hands off" and he didn't use his hands. I finally realized I was a battered woman. I was starting to think like one. There was a lot of other drama going on, and I slid into that way of thinking gradually. I will NOT be a battered woman. Not with anyone doing the hitting. I called the cops the first time because he went on a rant at husband and I about how husband needed to ASK HIS PERMISSION to hold my hand!!! WTF???? No Way. husband is his bio father and we have alway held hands, cuddled, etc... Wiz went on a rage, ending up in the bathroom trying to break the large mirror to kill himself with the glass. I called 911 and he calmed down. The deputy spoke with him long and hard. Told him he could end up in a certain facility (a juvenile facility for very violent kids). Rader is scary. The guards are vicious. The deputy talked us into allowing Wiz to stay. I told him if I called again for violence or threats of violence they would have to remove him from the property. Period. I would press charges. They hemmed and hawed over that and left. A couple of weeks later he headbutted me, knocking me back into our bar. I had a big bruise on my back and was extremely sore. I had jessie call 911. This time I refused to let him stay here. I told the deputy he had a chance. he got physical with me and I wanted to press charges. Period. I also said that if he stayed here one of us would end up dead at Wiz' hands. So they took him. deputy never did write up the charges. Not in 2 MONTHS of court dates. It is torture to stand in front of the judge and tell him what happened. i wrote it out in a letter, along with what all we had done to help Wiz. So they may not WANT to take him, but you CAN insist. It just takes persistence and a refusal to change your mind. So what if they have to take him 30 miles away? In a big city, like Dallas or Cincinnati (where I used to live) every facility is that far or farther from most places. PM me if you need someone to chat with, or someone in OK to call. I will send you my number if you want to talk. many hugs! [/QUOTE]
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