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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 265082" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I didn't mean "send it" unsolicited. My suggestion was to have it typed up with simplitied nutshell style for "if" and "when" the brand new Parole dude wants to review difficult children issues. I agree completely with you that the past actions of "the system" were not in difficult children best interests. Just like a brand new job interview <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> when you meet with the new man you have to be prepared to present the facts and be "open" to the future. (NOT ready to jump under the bus <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/redface.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":redface:" title="redface :redface:" data-shortname=":redface:" /> but "open" to what the future brings.</p><p> </p><p>Like the old reference "your kid is a number" (aren't we all numbers now?) and there are lots and lots of numbers. Make the Parole guys job easier by recapsilating and, in essence, saying let's work together for the best outcome with my kid. DDD</p><p> </p><p>PS: I DO understand. My easy child/difficult child has not had a hint of a problem with "the system" since they stole nine months out of his recovery period by incarcerating him. (Hmm...am I bitter? Yep!). He has a "nice PO". The lady told him one month "you need to get paid up on your fees if you want</p><p>to be released from probation early." The next month I told him "ask PO what exactly the procedure is to get released early." He did. She responded "they don't give early release to felons with violent backgrounds". WTH! He told her "Mrs. P I have NO history of violence." She checks the back of the file folder and says "Oh easy child/difficult child I'm sorry, you are right there is no red check on your folder." <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite5" alt=":confused:" title="Confused :confused:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":confused:" /> Then, the nice lady calls last week and says "easy child/difficult child I am coming by to see you at home on Saturday as I'm required to see you at home once every few months." The kid stayed home. It has been eight days...she is a no show. Believe me, Klmno, I DO understand. I also understand now that you can not change the system. Sad but true.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 265082, member: 35"] I didn't mean "send it" unsolicited. My suggestion was to have it typed up with simplitied nutshell style for "if" and "when" the brand new Parole dude wants to review difficult children issues. I agree completely with you that the past actions of "the system" were not in difficult children best interests. Just like a brand new job interview :winking: when you meet with the new man you have to be prepared to present the facts and be "open" to the future. (NOT ready to jump under the bus :blushing: but "open" to what the future brings. Like the old reference "your kid is a number" (aren't we all numbers now?) and there are lots and lots of numbers. Make the Parole guys job easier by recapsilating and, in essence, saying let's work together for the best outcome with my kid. DDD PS: I DO understand. My easy child/difficult child has not had a hint of a problem with "the system" since they stole nine months out of his recovery period by incarcerating him. (Hmm...am I bitter? Yep!). He has a "nice PO". The lady told him one month "you need to get paid up on your fees if you want to be released from probation early." The next month I told him "ask PO what exactly the procedure is to get released early." He did. She responded "they don't give early release to felons with violent backgrounds". WTH! He told her "Mrs. P I have NO history of violence." She checks the back of the file folder and says "Oh easy child/difficult child I'm sorry, you are right there is no red check on your folder." :confused1: Then, the nice lady calls last week and says "easy child/difficult child I am coming by to see you at home on Saturday as I'm required to see you at home once every few months." The kid stayed home. It has been eight days...she is a no show. Believe me, Klmno, I DO understand. I also understand now that you can not change the system. Sad but true. [/QUOTE]
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