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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 480335"><p>(((hugs))) </p><p></p><p>OK - my unedited post basically stated I found it doubtful - based on my own experience - that he could simply reschedule his plane departure. IME - changing a plane ticket requires an Act of God and/or Congress and/or $300+.</p><p></p><p>And then I realized that my $0.02 was not in fact helpful - and would add to your distress. And I hit a nerve with myself because my mom is always sympathizing with me (LOL) and saying things like " OMG, I bet you worry that difficult child was totally lying to you about that time he said he was going out of town with adult chaperones. Remember how he was sick when he came home? I wonder if it was a hangover and not the flu and he had all ready started using again..."</p><p></p><p>and then I want to SCREAM "no I was not worried about that - but HEY - thanks for putting the thoughts in my head...so I can add it to the list of 2000 things I am obsessing and worrying over..."</p><p></p><p>but of course I don't say that...</p><p></p><p>And husband and I are bickering and had it OUT last night - within earshot of the kids - plus work is a PITA - AND we are going to visit difficult child on Saturday to break the ice and lay down the standards of living in our home... which has to be done b4 he comes home for TGiving. I am dreading it.</p><p></p><p>Love, Debbie Downer aka Signorina</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 480335"] (((hugs))) OK - my unedited post basically stated I found it doubtful - based on my own experience - that he could simply reschedule his plane departure. IME - changing a plane ticket requires an Act of God and/or Congress and/or $300+. And then I realized that my $0.02 was not in fact helpful - and would add to your distress. And I hit a nerve with myself because my mom is always sympathizing with me (LOL) and saying things like " OMG, I bet you worry that difficult child was totally lying to you about that time he said he was going out of town with adult chaperones. Remember how he was sick when he came home? I wonder if it was a hangover and not the flu and he had all ready started using again..." and then I want to SCREAM "no I was not worried about that - but HEY - thanks for putting the thoughts in my head...so I can add it to the list of 2000 things I am obsessing and worrying over..." but of course I don't say that... And husband and I are bickering and had it OUT last night - within earshot of the kids - plus work is a PITA - AND we are going to visit difficult child on Saturday to break the ice and lay down the standards of living in our home... which has to be done b4 he comes home for TGiving. I am dreading it. Love, Debbie Downer aka Signorina [/QUOTE]
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