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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 224045" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>I'm just doing what my gut tells me to basically. right now this is what it's saying to me. I will not live like a prisoner in my own home, due to her actions or lack of honesty (hence the boyfriend). So, now she will get a sitter just to show her ok you wanna act like your two, here ya go slick!!</p><p> </p><p>The volunteering is basically in my gut to teach her that there are other ppl in the world, and how it feels to give to someone. Not the me, me, me attitude. Also a bit of hard work never hurt anyone. Umm....we are also sitting down with her boyfriend and her and basically threatening their lives. If she wants to perform sexual acts, ok go for it yet i'm not about to make it easy by anti up her own bedroom and a place in which we like to call home and she does not pay the bills in. Sorry kid, you'l have to wait till you can pay your own rent lol. tha'Tourette's Syndrome how i feel. </p><p> </p><p>as far as the rest of it goes, group counseling will be good. because maybe it will enable her to reach out to others with whom struggle with similar issues and hopefully it will give her ideas about how to handle situations differently and make better choices for herself. Also how her actions have an impact on others due to our love for her.</p><p> </p><p>i have no clue if it'll work but i'm giong to give it a good try. the stripping room down thing, is because bottom line she deserves it. it won't be easy i hate making her miserable. yet she lied and for that there will be a consequence in my mind. she is still only 15.</p><p> </p><p>so, anyhow i see your point. I have tried that for years, lead by example show her the right way to handle things, learned empathy, etc. good point on your part. Yet I think with some kids logic can be achieved yet with others it's a no go situation. so, to me talk time is over. yet i tried that route and umm not so good obviously lol. as far as the nature of what she did i think you asked that before and i was blunt and shared. i dont want to go into great detail. yet, suffice it to say it was very poor decison making on her part.</p><p> </p><p>flip side to it all i also have to make her an appointment at the gynecologist to ensure she isn't pregnant at this point. and she will be made to go thru an entire gyn visit. just like grown ups do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 224045, member: 4514"] I'm just doing what my gut tells me to basically. right now this is what it's saying to me. I will not live like a prisoner in my own home, due to her actions or lack of honesty (hence the boyfriend). So, now she will get a sitter just to show her ok you wanna act like your two, here ya go slick!! The volunteering is basically in my gut to teach her that there are other ppl in the world, and how it feels to give to someone. Not the me, me, me attitude. Also a bit of hard work never hurt anyone. Umm....we are also sitting down with her boyfriend and her and basically threatening their lives. If she wants to perform sexual acts, ok go for it yet i'm not about to make it easy by anti up her own bedroom and a place in which we like to call home and she does not pay the bills in. Sorry kid, you'l have to wait till you can pay your own rent lol. tha'Tourette's Syndrome how i feel. as far as the rest of it goes, group counseling will be good. because maybe it will enable her to reach out to others with whom struggle with similar issues and hopefully it will give her ideas about how to handle situations differently and make better choices for herself. Also how her actions have an impact on others due to our love for her. i have no clue if it'll work but i'm giong to give it a good try. the stripping room down thing, is because bottom line she deserves it. it won't be easy i hate making her miserable. yet she lied and for that there will be a consequence in my mind. she is still only 15. so, anyhow i see your point. I have tried that for years, lead by example show her the right way to handle things, learned empathy, etc. good point on your part. Yet I think with some kids logic can be achieved yet with others it's a no go situation. so, to me talk time is over. yet i tried that route and umm not so good obviously lol. as far as the nature of what she did i think you asked that before and i was blunt and shared. i dont want to go into great detail. yet, suffice it to say it was very poor decison making on her part. flip side to it all i also have to make her an appointment at the gynecologist to ensure she isn't pregnant at this point. and she will be made to go thru an entire gyn visit. just like grown ups do. [/QUOTE]
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