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<blockquote data-quote="LadybugMama" data-source="post: 513536" data-attributes="member: 14100"><p>No, no hard feelings! Lol! Had a busy Saturday... Got the 2yo his big boy bed and spent a little time talking to husband about all of this. He is pleased that I have found a place to hash out my feelings with others experiencing similar situations. He is not pleased that I requested him to be a little more active, but he is willing to give it a shot... In addition to our family therapy sessions on Monday night he has agreed to spend Sunday night with a family meal and a family-fun activity such as karaoke (We have a perry-the-platypus karaoke machine). He is good about spending time with our 2yo but not so good with spending time with his daughter. I know he is stressed out with what difficult child's mother is doing, but as I have told him, it is not the little girl's fault! I have told him many times that it is so stressful, but only when I was left with health problems from the stress did it open his eyes. Thank you all so much for your support! I have lost friends over all of this and lost confidences of the ones I had left. It is so wonderful that there is a place for mentally exhausted parents to vent and support each other. So often I get looked at like I am insane, even by therapists, for sticking around and for all I do for my family. I can't help it, really! Even when things are rough, I just want everyone to be happy and healthy. It is difficult when you know something is wrong and all people want to do is tell you you're crazy... But really, when you have your child's friend's parents call and ask why your child babytalks to us when she talks normal elsewhere... A big red flag pops up! difficult child tested between 9th and 10th grade academically when we had her tested, but to me she can't read a first grade level book or do simply multiplication tables... but she was popping out answers to questions faster than I could process them during her assessment! (and I am pretty intelligent academically... not so much common sense, though!). At home she acts almost autistic, in public she is a diva. husband has agreed to take on more responsibility with her and that is such a blessing! Thank you all for your support!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LadybugMama, post: 513536, member: 14100"] No, no hard feelings! Lol! Had a busy Saturday... Got the 2yo his big boy bed and spent a little time talking to husband about all of this. He is pleased that I have found a place to hash out my feelings with others experiencing similar situations. He is not pleased that I requested him to be a little more active, but he is willing to give it a shot... In addition to our family therapy sessions on Monday night he has agreed to spend Sunday night with a family meal and a family-fun activity such as karaoke (We have a perry-the-platypus karaoke machine). He is good about spending time with our 2yo but not so good with spending time with his daughter. I know he is stressed out with what difficult child's mother is doing, but as I have told him, it is not the little girl's fault! I have told him many times that it is so stressful, but only when I was left with health problems from the stress did it open his eyes. Thank you all so much for your support! I have lost friends over all of this and lost confidences of the ones I had left. It is so wonderful that there is a place for mentally exhausted parents to vent and support each other. So often I get looked at like I am insane, even by therapists, for sticking around and for all I do for my family. I can't help it, really! Even when things are rough, I just want everyone to be happy and healthy. It is difficult when you know something is wrong and all people want to do is tell you you're crazy... But really, when you have your child's friend's parents call and ask why your child babytalks to us when she talks normal elsewhere... A big red flag pops up! difficult child tested between 9th and 10th grade academically when we had her tested, but to me she can't read a first grade level book or do simply multiplication tables... but she was popping out answers to questions faster than I could process them during her assessment! (and I am pretty intelligent academically... not so much common sense, though!). At home she acts almost autistic, in public she is a diva. husband has agreed to take on more responsibility with her and that is such a blessing! Thank you all for your support! [/QUOTE]
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