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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 513548" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>I'm glad he has agreed to take on responsibility. Actions will speak for themselves. I would not home school this child. She needs to face the music at school and you need another set of eyes . This is too hard on you-thus the mini-stroke. I guarantee it is too hard on your baby. There are many placements at schools for children with these issues. I would have her tested and placed. She may have a learning disability-smart kids often are twice exceptional (very smart and then having a disability in one or more areas). She is no doubt, emotionally disturbed (be it Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) or an emerging personality disorder, trauma, etc.). There are placements for these children as well. Some of these teachers are very good at what they do. (You will hear horror stories on the board-so keep your eyes open). If she is manipulating you( pretending to be "dumb") and not doing the work she should-this is not good for anyone and to me indicates some pretty serious problems.</p><p></p><p><strong>If </strong>the emotional stress does not begin to level out, husband does not come to the plate, and you do not begin to be able to cope, I would not stay and risk the well being of my little 2 year old. There is no way to shield him from your stress and health problems and the stress your SD causes, it will cause him issues. This little girl is likely to suffer and have issues much of her life-and it only gets worse when a biomom plays games with her children. An puberty? It's hard with normal kids, imagine with a child who is not well. Please do everything you can to take care of yourself first or you will not be able to care for your children. And I agree with DDD, keep insisting on husband pulling up to the plate. ((Hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 513548, member: 11001"] I'm glad he has agreed to take on responsibility. Actions will speak for themselves. I would not home school this child. She needs to face the music at school and you need another set of eyes . This is too hard on you-thus the mini-stroke. I guarantee it is too hard on your baby. There are many placements at schools for children with these issues. I would have her tested and placed. She may have a learning disability-smart kids often are twice exceptional (very smart and then having a disability in one or more areas). She is no doubt, emotionally disturbed (be it Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) or an emerging personality disorder, trauma, etc.). There are placements for these children as well. Some of these teachers are very good at what they do. (You will hear horror stories on the board-so keep your eyes open). If she is manipulating you( pretending to be "dumb") and not doing the work she should-this is not good for anyone and to me indicates some pretty serious problems. [B]If [/B]the emotional stress does not begin to level out, husband does not come to the plate, and you do not begin to be able to cope, I would not stay and risk the well being of my little 2 year old. There is no way to shield him from your stress and health problems and the stress your SD causes, it will cause him issues. This little girl is likely to suffer and have issues much of her life-and it only gets worse when a biomom plays games with her children. An puberty? It's hard with normal kids, imagine with a child who is not well. Please do everything you can to take care of yourself first or you will not be able to care for your children. And I agree with DDD, keep insisting on husband pulling up to the plate. ((Hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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