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<blockquote data-quote="slsh" data-source="post: 536697" data-attributes="member: 8"><p>Was able to sit and chat with- thank you for about 2 hours today. He's holding up decently for today. I know it will be day by day for quite a while. He did love her, very much. This was apparently nothing more than one of their usual mild tiffs in his eyes, and she certainly didn't give any hint of her mindset. He keeps saying he doesn't know how he will get through this without her. </p><p></p><p>We both understand why he's being blamed and in his mind, he'd much rather be blamed than have people blame B. We agree that "blame" and "why" are 2 concepts that simply don't apply here because there is no blame or why that will make this understandable, but also that sometimes people need to fix on an easy reason anyway. </p><p></p><p>She will be cremated, which is fitting for her. Does make it harder I think for our family to really get a fix on the fact that she's really gone - there will be no marker. thank you is pondering doing something in her name, permanently, so that there is concrete evidence of her presence and loss. We'll get there.</p><p></p><p>I think the thing that we're all struggling with- is how hard it is to grasp that the girl we all loved, who was here cutting thank you's hair last weekend, is really gone and that she did it herself. It just defies comprehension. It wasn't a cry for help, it was a definitive final act. We're all just very raw, with the added worry for thank you.</p><p></p><p>One day at a time.</p><p></p><p>Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your good thoughts for us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="slsh, post: 536697, member: 8"] Was able to sit and chat with- thank you for about 2 hours today. He's holding up decently for today. I know it will be day by day for quite a while. He did love her, very much. This was apparently nothing more than one of their usual mild tiffs in his eyes, and she certainly didn't give any hint of her mindset. He keeps saying he doesn't know how he will get through this without her. We both understand why he's being blamed and in his mind, he'd much rather be blamed than have people blame B. We agree that "blame" and "why" are 2 concepts that simply don't apply here because there is no blame or why that will make this understandable, but also that sometimes people need to fix on an easy reason anyway. She will be cremated, which is fitting for her. Does make it harder I think for our family to really get a fix on the fact that she's really gone - there will be no marker. thank you is pondering doing something in her name, permanently, so that there is concrete evidence of her presence and loss. We'll get there. I think the thing that we're all struggling with- is how hard it is to grasp that the girl we all loved, who was here cutting thank you's hair last weekend, is really gone and that she did it herself. It just defies comprehension. It wasn't a cry for help, it was a definitive final act. We're all just very raw, with the added worry for thank you. One day at a time. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your good thoughts for us. [/QUOTE]
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