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POSSIBLE BREAKTHROUGH WITH difficult child 2!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Paul" data-source="post: 110844" data-attributes="member: 4378"><p>After trying everything and having to wait 4-6 months for a neuro-psychiatric to re-evaluate difficult child 2, we tried something radical...and it's working!</p><p></p><p>Here is what we did...</p><p></p><p>**************************************************************</p><p><u><strong>EARN YOUR PASSPORT FOR THE DAY!</strong></u></p><p></p><p>You are to take your pill dosage to Mom or Dad with a glass of water. You are to take you pill in front of Mom or Dad and show them that you swallowed the pill. If you successfully take all your doses, YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR PASSPORT FOR THE DAY!</p><p></p><p>PENALTY If you skip any dose, you lose all privileges for the day; no computer/TV/MP3 Player/Playstation/Friends/Phone Calls/Toys/Family Activities.</p><p></p><p>If you have your PASSPORT, you will earn points each day to buy activities. If you SAVE your points, and EARN points, you can buy WEEKEND & VACATION TIME SPECIALS!</p><p></p><p>Your PASSPORT gives you an automatic 50 points! Every activity costs you some points, breaking the rules costs you points so you have less to spend!</p><p></p><p><u><strong>WHAT YOU CAN BUY!</strong></u></p><p></p><p>Just like Mom & Dad, you have to buy the things you want here is what you can buy and how much it will cost!</p><p></p><p>DAILY ACTIVITIES</p><p> COST</p><p> </p><p>Playing a Card or Board Game With The Family</p><p> FREE</p><p> </p><p>Reading a Book</p><p> FREE</p><p> </p><p>Joining In On a Game or Activity</p><p> FREE</p><p> </p><p>Playing With Your Toys FULL DAY PASS!</p><p> 2 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Going Out to Play For 2 Hours</p><p> 5 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Having a Friend Over to Play For 2 Hours</p><p> 5 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Going Over to a Friend's House For 2 Hours</p><p> 5 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Listening to Your MP3 Player FULL DAY PASS!</p><p> 10 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Watching TV FULL DAY PASS!</p><p> 10 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Watching a Show YOU Want In the Living Room (subject to family approval)</p><p> 15 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Watching TV During Bedtime (when you fall asleep your TV will be turned off!)</p><p> 15 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Playing On the Computer For 1 Hour</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Playing On the Playstation For 1 Hour</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p><u><strong>WHAT YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY EXTRA FOR!</strong></u></p><p></p><p>Breaking the rules can cost you points and keep you from buying things you want! Here is how you can lose points DAILY!</p><p></p><p>DAILY PENALTIES</p><p> YOU LOSE:</p><p> </p><p>Not Hanging Up Coat and Putting Away Hat, Gloves, Boots/Shoes</p><p> 10 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Not Completing Homework Without Hassle</p><p> 20 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Not Completing Homework WITH HASSLE</p><p> 30 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Not Completing Chores Properly (to be approved by Mom or Dad)</p><p> 20 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Speaking Rudely to an Adult (does not include joking around AT HOME WITH US)</p><p> 10 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Speaking Rudely to an Adult OUTSIDE THE HOUSE</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Disobeying an Adult AT ANY TIME</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Lying about ANYTHING</p><p> 30 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Whining or Causing Problems AT ANY TIME INCLUDING FAMILY OUTINGS</p><p> 30 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Purposely Irritating Others After They Tell You to STOP</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Disrespecting an Adult AT ANY TIME (does not include joking around AT HOME WITH US)</p><p> 30 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Overtime on ANY Playtime (Outide / Inside / or At Friend's House) LETTING MOM & DAD KNOW</p><p> 5 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Overtime on ANY Playtime (Outide / Inside / or At Friend's House) WITHOUT LETTING MOM & DAD KNOW</p><p> 15 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Overtime on the Computer / Playstation</p><p> 10 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Playing Inappropriate Games on the Computer / Playstation</p><p> 15 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Viewing Inappropriate Material on the Computer or Using Computer Improperly</p><p> 20 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Viewing Inappropriate TV Shows or Movies</p><p> 20 POINTS + LOSS OF TV PASS</p><p> </p><p>Throwing ANY Temper Tantrums or Fits</p><p> LOSE ALL PRIVLEDGES AND POINTS</p><p> </p><p><u><strong>HOW YOU CAN EARN EXTRA POINTS!</strong></u></p><p></p><p>You have the potential to earn a total of 250 Points throughout the week by getting your PASSPORT everyday! You can save these points and EARN additional points for good behavior at the end of every week! Here is how you can earn extra points to make your weekend EXTRA SPECIAL!</p><p></p><p>BEHAVIOR</p><p> WHAT YOU WILL EARN:</p><p> </p><p>Take Medicine On Time AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Respect EVERYONE AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Telling the Truth AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Not Whining or Causing Problems AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Keeping Your Side of the Room Clean AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Successfully Completing Homework AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Successfully Completing Chores AT ALL TIMES</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Doing Extra Chores On Your Own Just to Help Out</p><p> 25 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Going to Church</p><p> 50 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Getting Excellent Grades</p><p> 100 POINTS</p><p></p><p><u><strong>WEEKEND & VACATION-TIME SPECIALS!</strong></u></p><p></p><p>So with your 250 Points from your week (if you save them all and do not lose any), plus the POTENTIAL of earning an additional 250 points at the end of the week, you can buy special activities with your points! Here is what you can buy!</p><p></p><p>WHAT YOU CAN BUY:</p><p> COST:</p><p> </p><p>Having a Friend or Family Member spend the Night Here (PER NIGHT)</p><p> 100 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Spending the Night at a Friend's or Family Member's House (PER NIGHT)</p><p> 200 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Watching a Movie at Home of YOUR CHOICE (subject to family approval)</p><p> 200 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Playing a Card or Board Game of YOUR CHOICE</p><p> 200 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Going to the Movie Theater (If Money Allows)</p><p> 250 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Going Bowling / Playing Pool (If Money Allows)</p><p> 250 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Going Out to Eat at a Restaurant OF YOUR CHOICE (If Money Allows)</p><p> 250 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Slumber Party (with Pizza if Money Allows)</p><p> 500 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Family Fun Time (an activity of your choice that everyone can participate in weather permitting)</p><p> 500 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Swimming Pool / Day at the Beach</p><p> 750 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>Road Trip to Museum / Amusement Park / Carnival / Fair</p><p> 1000 POINTS</p><p> </p><p>**************************************************************</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Paul, post: 110844, member: 4378"] After trying everything and having to wait 4-6 months for a neuro-psychiatric to re-evaluate difficult child 2, we tried something radical...and it's working! Here is what we did... ************************************************************** <u>[b]EARN YOUR PASSPORT FOR THE DAY![/b]</u> You are to take your pill dosage to Mom or Dad with a glass of water. You are to take you pill in front of Mom or Dad and show them that you swallowed the pill. If you successfully take all your doses, YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR PASSPORT FOR THE DAY! PENALTY If you skip any dose, you lose all privileges for the day; no computer/TV/MP3 Player/Playstation/Friends/Phone Calls/Toys/Family Activities. If you have your PASSPORT, you will earn points each day to buy activities. If you SAVE your points, and EARN points, you can buy WEEKEND & VACATION TIME SPECIALS! Your PASSPORT gives you an automatic 50 points! Every activity costs you some points, breaking the rules costs you points so you have less to spend! <u>[b]WHAT YOU CAN BUY![/b]</u> Just like Mom & Dad, you have to buy the things you want here is what you can buy and how much it will cost! DAILY ACTIVITIES COST Playing a Card or Board Game With The Family FREE Reading a Book FREE Joining In On a Game or Activity FREE Playing With Your Toys FULL DAY PASS! 2 POINTS Going Out to Play For 2 Hours 5 POINTS Having a Friend Over to Play For 2 Hours 5 POINTS Going Over to a Friend's House For 2 Hours 5 POINTS Listening to Your MP3 Player FULL DAY PASS! 10 POINTS Watching TV FULL DAY PASS! 10 POINTS Watching a Show YOU Want In the Living Room (subject to family approval) 15 POINTS Watching TV During Bedtime (when you fall asleep your TV will be turned off!) 15 POINTS Playing On the Computer For 1 Hour 25 POINTS Playing On the Playstation For 1 Hour 25 POINTS <u>[b]WHAT YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY EXTRA FOR![/b]</u> Breaking the rules can cost you points and keep you from buying things you want! Here is how you can lose points DAILY! DAILY PENALTIES YOU LOSE: Not Hanging Up Coat and Putting Away Hat, Gloves, Boots/Shoes 10 POINTS Not Completing Homework Without Hassle 20 POINTS Not Completing Homework WITH HASSLE 30 POINTS Not Completing Chores Properly (to be approved by Mom or Dad) 20 POINTS Speaking Rudely to an Adult (does not include joking around AT HOME WITH US) 10 POINTS Speaking Rudely to an Adult OUTSIDE THE HOUSE 25 POINTS Disobeying an Adult AT ANY TIME 25 POINTS Lying about ANYTHING 30 POINTS Whining or Causing Problems AT ANY TIME INCLUDING FAMILY OUTINGS 30 POINTS Purposely Irritating Others After They Tell You to STOP 25 POINTS Disrespecting an Adult AT ANY TIME (does not include joking around AT HOME WITH US) 30 POINTS Overtime on ANY Playtime (Outide / Inside / or At Friend's House) LETTING MOM & DAD KNOW 5 POINTS Overtime on ANY Playtime (Outide / Inside / or At Friend's House) WITHOUT LETTING MOM & DAD KNOW 15 POINTS Overtime on the Computer / Playstation 10 POINTS Playing Inappropriate Games on the Computer / Playstation 15 POINTS Viewing Inappropriate Material on the Computer or Using Computer Improperly 20 POINTS Viewing Inappropriate TV Shows or Movies 20 POINTS + LOSS OF TV PASS Throwing ANY Temper Tantrums or Fits LOSE ALL PRIVLEDGES AND POINTS <u>[b]HOW YOU CAN EARN EXTRA POINTS![/b]</u> You have the potential to earn a total of 250 Points throughout the week by getting your PASSPORT everyday! You can save these points and EARN additional points for good behavior at the end of every week! Here is how you can earn extra points to make your weekend EXTRA SPECIAL! BEHAVIOR WHAT YOU WILL EARN: Take Medicine On Time AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Respect EVERYONE AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Telling the Truth AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Not Whining or Causing Problems AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Keeping Your Side of the Room Clean AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Successfully Completing Homework AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Successfully Completing Chores AT ALL TIMES 25 POINTS Doing Extra Chores On Your Own Just to Help Out 25 POINTS Going to Church 50 POINTS Getting Excellent Grades 100 POINTS <u>[b]WEEKEND & VACATION-TIME SPECIALS![/b]</u> So with your 250 Points from your week (if you save them all and do not lose any), plus the POTENTIAL of earning an additional 250 points at the end of the week, you can buy special activities with your points! Here is what you can buy! WHAT YOU CAN BUY: COST: Having a Friend or Family Member spend the Night Here (PER NIGHT) 100 POINTS Spending the Night at a Friend's or Family Member's House (PER NIGHT) 200 POINTS Watching a Movie at Home of YOUR CHOICE (subject to family approval) 200 POINTS Playing a Card or Board Game of YOUR CHOICE 200 POINTS Going to the Movie Theater (If Money Allows) 250 POINTS Going Bowling / Playing Pool (If Money Allows) 250 POINTS Going Out to Eat at a Restaurant OF YOUR CHOICE (If Money Allows) 250 POINTS Slumber Party (with Pizza if Money Allows) 500 POINTS Family Fun Time (an activity of your choice that everyone can participate in weather permitting) 500 POINTS Swimming Pool / Day at the Beach 750 POINTS Road Trip to Museum / Amusement Park / Carnival / Fair 1000 POINTS ************************************************************** [/QUOTE]
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