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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 173112" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>As a compliment to the post asking if posts do help, I thought we can share some ways this board have helped us:</p><p> </p><p>So, posts have helped me ...............................</p><p> </p><p>Learn to detach -</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">This does not mean to stop loving or caring.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">This means to not be drawn in to the emotions of anger, fear, guilt, hopelessness, or whatever difficult child is trying to get you to feel.</li> </ul><p>Consider the cause -</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Why is this behavior showing?</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Is there a medical issue that needs to be addressed?</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Are the current medications causing this?</li> </ul><p>See that I am not alone -</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">I am not the only one with a difficult child.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">I am not the the only one who knows that my child is more than difficult, he is awesome, special, cool.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">I am not the only one who knows that a firmer hand will not help because difficult child can not help what is going on and understanding goes further than authoritian for difficult child's.</li> </ul><p>Laugh -</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Laughter is really the best medicine.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Life goes on and we do have to enjoy every good minute we can.</li> </ul><p>See different view points -</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">We all read posts differently.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Many times I will get feedback on a sentence that I didn't really expect input on. Someone saw something in that sentence that looked important and that input will get me thinking about the situation in a different light.</li> </ul></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 173112, member: 5096"] As a compliment to the post asking if posts do help, I thought we can share some ways this board have helped us: So, posts have helped me ............................... Learn to detach - [LIST] [*]This does not mean to stop loving or caring. [*]This means to not be drawn in to the emotions of anger, fear, guilt, hopelessness, or whatever difficult child is trying to get you to feel. [/LIST]Consider the cause - [LIST] [*]Why is this behavior showing? [*]Is there a medical issue that needs to be addressed? [*]Are the current medications causing this? [/LIST]See that I am not alone - [LIST] [*]I am not the only one with a difficult child. [*]I am not the the only one who knows that my child is more than difficult, he is awesome, special, cool. [*]I am not the only one who knows that a firmer hand will not help because difficult child can not help what is going on and understanding goes further than authoritian for difficult child's. [/LIST]Laugh - [LIST] [*]Laughter is really the best medicine. [*]Life goes on and we do have to enjoy every good minute we can. [/LIST]See different view points - [LIST] [*]We all read posts differently. [*]Many times I will get feedback on a sentence that I didn't really expect input on. Someone saw something in that sentence that looked important and that input will get me thinking about the situation in a different light. [/LIST] [/QUOTE]
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