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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 124493" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>in my humble opinion if the friend offered the job to difficult child then as long as difficult child is honest about telling her shortcomings, if asked, the job is between them. If your friend said to YOU what do you think about difficult child taking this job then you are roped into the middle. I think I would try to step out of the picture and say this is between them to figure out if it would work. If friend asked YOUR OPINION, then I think you would be obligated to say difficult child tires easily. If friend offered difficult child the job based only on YOUR friendship, then if you value that friendship I would tell difficult child to take a pass. </p><p>Do you think difficult child could handle the job? Or is she even interested? Know that if you are involved in the job your friend will come to you if difficult child isn't handling it well. You will get to deal with any shortcomings......tough call, unless you see your difficult child as capable of handling this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 124493, member: 53"] in my humble opinion if the friend offered the job to difficult child then as long as difficult child is honest about telling her shortcomings, if asked, the job is between them. If your friend said to YOU what do you think about difficult child taking this job then you are roped into the middle. I think I would try to step out of the picture and say this is between them to figure out if it would work. If friend asked YOUR OPINION, then I think you would be obligated to say difficult child tires easily. If friend offered difficult child the job based only on YOUR friendship, then if you value that friendship I would tell difficult child to take a pass. Do you think difficult child could handle the job? Or is she even interested? Know that if you are involved in the job your friend will come to you if difficult child isn't handling it well. You will get to deal with any shortcomings......tough call, unless you see your difficult child as capable of handling this. [/QUOTE]
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