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Probation review, difficult child sent back to prison
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 150663" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>RM, I'm so sorry this is happening to your difficult child.</p><p></p><p>The system really is broken, and our difficult children are the ones who suffer most from it. To create "efficiencies" and "accountability", these agencies have defined processes for things that can't be process-driven. When each case is unique, and requires people to think, understand and make decisions, that's the wrong place for a process.</p><p></p><p>Because of accountability, everyone is afraid to take a stand or make a decision because they will be held accountable for it. So, they either follow the rules by the book (which are process-driven rules, and therefore don't make sense anyway), or they refuse to do anything and pass it on to the next guy.</p><p></p><p>And our children's lives are turned upside down in the process.</p><p></p><p>As Witz said, Harumph!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 150663, member: 3907"] RM, I'm so sorry this is happening to your difficult child. The system really is broken, and our difficult children are the ones who suffer most from it. To create "efficiencies" and "accountability", these agencies have defined processes for things that can't be process-driven. When each case is unique, and requires people to think, understand and make decisions, that's the wrong place for a process. Because of accountability, everyone is afraid to take a stand or make a decision because they will be held accountable for it. So, they either follow the rules by the book (which are process-driven rules, and therefore don't make sense anyway), or they refuse to do anything and pass it on to the next guy. And our children's lives are turned upside down in the process. As Witz said, Harumph! [/QUOTE]
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