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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 542124" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Thanks guys, he had told me when he wrote it that I would not like what it will say because it will say how truly disabled he is. I think he is still getting to know me because it was probably a reaction to the fact that I didn't like some of his IEP wording but I always have input on the IEP. For this I only asked that he not embellish and make it sound like even with current supports he should be locked away in some state institution (not yet anyway, LOL....really they may need a room for me at the end of all of this parenting stuff...then again, I probably dont get to have an end of parenting stuff so I might be safe from that).</p><p></p><p>I think he was super honest but also showed how he is where he needs to be. I also have his current progress report from our in home services, and he met all of his current goals, showing really good progress. His county risk management plan is attached to that, which shows that he always has direct trained supervision around him and lots of family support. </p><p></p><p>Our law advocate said that another client who had six felony sexual assault charges against him ( he has FASD and many challenges) went through this process twice and everything was dismissed. Though the second time it happened they dug up the first charges and put them all together, then it was all dismissed again. </p><p></p><p></p><p>JJJ is right, the highest admin in our district was very upset that psycho did this. I do think that the local admin, that is the principal from he11 that we all got to know so well from the IEP meetings, the one who actually said if Q had any of the behaviors identified in his FBA, and that were being worked on in the IEP and BIP, he would tell all of his employees to complain to HR and ...then he left the threat open. He was challenged on that and he too go spoken to by the director of principals for the district (lots of layers of admin, it is a huge district) and the director of sp. ed. (they have a director, then coordinators who manage several schools each, then each school has the Special Education staff with one admin on site who is their go to person for the school).... The suspicion is that because this principal allowed and encouraged psycho to take the lead in "dealing" with Q when he should have checked, maybe he even knew that this guy had not had any crisis management/prevention training for over a decade...he too got in some trouble. So likely he (and maybe the union rep or a lawyer) advised psycho to press charges to make it look in retrospect like he had good reason to be so aggressive. </p><p></p><p>Our neurologist wrote me an email and said she wants to talk directly to the prosecuting attorney asap to let her/him know that she will testify that he is not capable of going through this process, that it may harm him, and so I am still waiting for the officer to get back to me with the name. The substitute for our case manager is also waiting for that name, I am going to call her at 9 to see if she found out anything. </p><p></p><p>I suspect getting ahold of anyone after today will be next to impossible. It is likely that even the county prosecutor will not be available this week, if I can't find out helpful answers I am going to call the court administrator and see if there is a way to postpone this date. </p><p></p><p>Thanks for letting me share the boring details, it helps to print out my thoughts, I even slept last night. </p><p></p><p>I can't say enough thank yous for every post you write, I think it is better than an antidepressant for me, I get this chemical charge that lets me keep in touch with reality and just keep putting one foot in front of the other and take care of business. I'm trying to post on other threads, but am on the phone or email a lot...just know I am reading them, in the car while waiting, or at appointments, and saying prayers and sending positive vibes through the web!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 542124, member: 12886"] Thanks guys, he had told me when he wrote it that I would not like what it will say because it will say how truly disabled he is. I think he is still getting to know me because it was probably a reaction to the fact that I didn't like some of his IEP wording but I always have input on the IEP. For this I only asked that he not embellish and make it sound like even with current supports he should be locked away in some state institution (not yet anyway, LOL....really they may need a room for me at the end of all of this parenting stuff...then again, I probably dont get to have an end of parenting stuff so I might be safe from that). I think he was super honest but also showed how he is where he needs to be. I also have his current progress report from our in home services, and he met all of his current goals, showing really good progress. His county risk management plan is attached to that, which shows that he always has direct trained supervision around him and lots of family support. Our law advocate said that another client who had six felony sexual assault charges against him ( he has FASD and many challenges) went through this process twice and everything was dismissed. Though the second time it happened they dug up the first charges and put them all together, then it was all dismissed again. JJJ is right, the highest admin in our district was very upset that psycho did this. I do think that the local admin, that is the principal from he11 that we all got to know so well from the IEP meetings, the one who actually said if Q had any of the behaviors identified in his FBA, and that were being worked on in the IEP and BIP, he would tell all of his employees to complain to HR and ...then he left the threat open. He was challenged on that and he too go spoken to by the director of principals for the district (lots of layers of admin, it is a huge district) and the director of sp. ed. (they have a director, then coordinators who manage several schools each, then each school has the Special Education staff with one admin on site who is their go to person for the school).... The suspicion is that because this principal allowed and encouraged psycho to take the lead in "dealing" with Q when he should have checked, maybe he even knew that this guy had not had any crisis management/prevention training for over a decade...he too got in some trouble. So likely he (and maybe the union rep or a lawyer) advised psycho to press charges to make it look in retrospect like he had good reason to be so aggressive. Our neurologist wrote me an email and said she wants to talk directly to the prosecuting attorney asap to let her/him know that she will testify that he is not capable of going through this process, that it may harm him, and so I am still waiting for the officer to get back to me with the name. The substitute for our case manager is also waiting for that name, I am going to call her at 9 to see if she found out anything. I suspect getting ahold of anyone after today will be next to impossible. It is likely that even the county prosecutor will not be available this week, if I can't find out helpful answers I am going to call the court administrator and see if there is a way to postpone this date. Thanks for letting me share the boring details, it helps to print out my thoughts, I even slept last night. I can't say enough thank yous for every post you write, I think it is better than an antidepressant for me, I get this chemical charge that lets me keep in touch with reality and just keep putting one foot in front of the other and take care of business. I'm trying to post on other threads, but am on the phone or email a lot...just know I am reading them, in the car while waiting, or at appointments, and saying prayers and sending positive vibes through the web! [/QUOTE]
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