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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 156200" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>OK, something just clicked with me.</p><p></p><p>In Wynter's mind, maybe HER idea of "mom helping me with homework" is not the same as MOM'S idea of doing it.</p><p></p><p>She can physically see that you are there. She KNOWS that you are there next to her. But her complaints are "it is too hard, I don't get it, I can't, etc." Perhaps she is waiting for you to do it <em>for</em> her. And in her mind, THAT is "help". She does not want to know how o help herself, she wants you to do it for her, and THAT is her interpretation of help. So any actual help that you are giving to her, she is not seeing as help at all. Know what I mean??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 156200, member: 3647"] OK, something just clicked with me. In Wynter's mind, maybe HER idea of "mom helping me with homework" is not the same as MOM'S idea of doing it. She can physically see that you are there. She KNOWS that you are there next to her. But her complaints are "it is too hard, I don't get it, I can't, etc." Perhaps she is waiting for you to do it [I]for[/I] her. And in her mind, THAT is "help". She does not want to know how o help herself, she wants you to do it for her, and THAT is her interpretation of help. So any actual help that you are giving to her, she is not seeing as help at all. Know what I mean?? [/QUOTE]
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