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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 413431" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>The fact is though that we are paying for his car to be fixed, but we decided to do this. He didn't ask. We offered because he's in treatment, he's doing well with his job and without a car, he would lose this job. He works 4 to midnight, no buses run at that time and it would cost him $40 a night to take a cab home and we can't continue to drop him off and pick him up at midnight much longer. My dilema is we gave him the choice to make, told him the consequences, but we are paying for the car to be fixed and could be throwing that money right out the window if he gets pulled over and the car gets impounded. </p><p></p><p>It's his car, it's in his name, he's paying the insurance, but we are paying for it to be fixed, so do we pick it up when it's finished and keep the keys until he gets his license back, or take the chance that we chose to pay for this repair and if he screws it up, I have to stand by what I said and walk away, which I know I can do because I have made it very clear what the natural consequence will be for his choice??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 413431, member: 2442"] The fact is though that we are paying for his car to be fixed, but we decided to do this. He didn't ask. We offered because he's in treatment, he's doing well with his job and without a car, he would lose this job. He works 4 to midnight, no buses run at that time and it would cost him $40 a night to take a cab home and we can't continue to drop him off and pick him up at midnight much longer. My dilema is we gave him the choice to make, told him the consequences, but we are paying for the car to be fixed and could be throwing that money right out the window if he gets pulled over and the car gets impounded. It's his car, it's in his name, he's paying the insurance, but we are paying for it to be fixed, so do we pick it up when it's finished and keep the keys until he gets his license back, or take the chance that we chose to pay for this repair and if he screws it up, I have to stand by what I said and walk away, which I know I can do because I have made it very clear what the natural consequence will be for his choice?? [/QUOTE]
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