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Ran across this- I am good enough!
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 92752" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I think perfectionism is a scary thing. People who seem driven to be perfect usually have deep pain hidden, or a secret that scares and upsets them. I am not phrasing this well, but I think y'all will understand.</p><p></p><p>I do not try to hide what we do, or when, or if we do things.</p><p></p><p>I know we are all more than good enough. We are wonderful, jsut the way we are.</p><p></p><p>I wish I could get my bro to see that his house doesn't have to be perfect, he could leave a few toys out when he has his daughter. They spend their time together (shared parenting) at my parents or doing chores. He plans picnics anc camping but never has everything just right so about 1/2 the time they end up not going.</p><p></p><p>It is a shame to see him miss so much of her childhood because he is cleaning the house.</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 92752, member: 1233"] I think perfectionism is a scary thing. People who seem driven to be perfect usually have deep pain hidden, or a secret that scares and upsets them. I am not phrasing this well, but I think y'all will understand. I do not try to hide what we do, or when, or if we do things. I know we are all more than good enough. We are wonderful, jsut the way we are. I wish I could get my bro to see that his house doesn't have to be perfect, he could leave a few toys out when he has his daughter. They spend their time together (shared parenting) at my parents or doing chores. He plans picnics anc camping but never has everything just right so about 1/2 the time they end up not going. It is a shame to see him miss so much of her childhood because he is cleaning the house. Susie [/QUOTE]
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