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Re: Help I need help kicked my son out (Intro post)
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 485281" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>moomm, </p><p></p><p>You are never alone here.....post anytime.......about anything. YOU ARE A BRAVE WOMAN......and SMART.......and COURAGEOUS.....and despite the fact that we are not there with you physically? When you feel alone? Think of us there standing behind you like a possee to give you strength. A band of angels if you will. It's what I do when I feel all alone and suprisingly it helps. </p><p></p><p>There are none of us here that haven't gone through something - horrible. If I ever told my story (and I may write it someday) I'm not sure if I'd have to include string in the book so people could tie their mouths back up from dropping. TO know me now and know what I endured - and accepted then? And what I will and won't tolerate now? TWO TOTALLY different women. Completely different outlook on life, myself and helping others. My entire life I was bullied.....picked on, put down...and then I got into a marriage that was abusive beyond description, and therapy. Some of it I never could unlock - it's just that bad. But fifteen years of therapy later? I'm a better person for it and when I see ANYONE (not just you) anyone - (ask em here - I'm pretty bold in public) women, men, kids....dogs, animals......I WILL say what is right if someone is not being treated properly. Especially if they think or have people around them telling them "You're a troublemaker, you should just be quiet, or look what you did now by standing up for yourself." - I'll tell you a good one - Have your Mother in Law beat you for having your husband (her son) beat you for trying to stick up for yourself and making him angry and telling her about it. Try that one on for size.....I know what I'm talking about. And then....wait until the sister found about the fact that I got the Mother upset and she tried to beat me up too. Yeah talk about a whipping boy....Then run away? And have them all hunt you down like a deer in the woods, drag you back and threaten you. (I laugh now) but what a mess. Sound extreme? Happens EVERY DAY.....Sound SO MUCH MORE EXTREME than your world? How much more? Think about it....only on a verbal level. Now you know why I say - VERBAL and mental violence ARE abuse...and you don't need to suffer any of it. You don't need to wait UNTIL someone "sees" what you've been suffereing through - They may NEVER fully understand how YOU've felt because they haven't had years of it. </p><p></p><p>Just saying......I'm strong for ya sister.......And I'm not taking any excuses from ya either. ;-) Hard to get that someone you never met, probably never WILL meet can care about you so much - but I do -----and Im so very glad that you found us and are a part of THIS family. We get it......really - we do. </p><p></p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 485281, member: 4964"] moomm, You are never alone here.....post anytime.......about anything. YOU ARE A BRAVE WOMAN......and SMART.......and COURAGEOUS.....and despite the fact that we are not there with you physically? When you feel alone? Think of us there standing behind you like a possee to give you strength. A band of angels if you will. It's what I do when I feel all alone and suprisingly it helps. There are none of us here that haven't gone through something - horrible. If I ever told my story (and I may write it someday) I'm not sure if I'd have to include string in the book so people could tie their mouths back up from dropping. TO know me now and know what I endured - and accepted then? And what I will and won't tolerate now? TWO TOTALLY different women. Completely different outlook on life, myself and helping others. My entire life I was bullied.....picked on, put down...and then I got into a marriage that was abusive beyond description, and therapy. Some of it I never could unlock - it's just that bad. But fifteen years of therapy later? I'm a better person for it and when I see ANYONE (not just you) anyone - (ask em here - I'm pretty bold in public) women, men, kids....dogs, animals......I WILL say what is right if someone is not being treated properly. Especially if they think or have people around them telling them "You're a troublemaker, you should just be quiet, or look what you did now by standing up for yourself." - I'll tell you a good one - Have your Mother in Law beat you for having your husband (her son) beat you for trying to stick up for yourself and making him angry and telling her about it. Try that one on for size.....I know what I'm talking about. And then....wait until the sister found about the fact that I got the Mother upset and she tried to beat me up too. Yeah talk about a whipping boy....Then run away? And have them all hunt you down like a deer in the woods, drag you back and threaten you. (I laugh now) but what a mess. Sound extreme? Happens EVERY DAY.....Sound SO MUCH MORE EXTREME than your world? How much more? Think about it....only on a verbal level. Now you know why I say - VERBAL and mental violence ARE abuse...and you don't need to suffer any of it. You don't need to wait UNTIL someone "sees" what you've been suffereing through - They may NEVER fully understand how YOU've felt because they haven't had years of it. Just saying......I'm strong for ya sister.......And I'm not taking any excuses from ya either. ;-) Hard to get that someone you never met, probably never WILL meet can care about you so much - but I do -----and Im so very glad that you found us and are a part of THIS family. We get it......really - we do. Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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