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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 109624" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Hi, Paul. Welcome back. Sorry to hear that things have gotten worse but it is good that you have taken steps forward to get a</p><p>neuro/psychiatric done. Why is there such a long wait for scheduling?</p><p>I know sometimes insurance coverage requires delays but it really</p><p>does seem like your son is pushing the issues rather drastically</p><p>and that is an indication that help is needed sooner than later,</p><p>in my humble opinion. Truthfully I would find a way to go "out of network" if necessary to get resolution faster. My fear would be that new</p><p>patterns of behavior may become entrenched.</p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, did you all read the recommended Explosive Child book?</p><p>Many of our CD members swear by that book and feel it saved their</p><p>family sanity. Personally I have not had the issues you have until this last (8th) child. The commonality is in the fact that</p><p>he directs his anger and insults to me, like your boy does his Mom. Believe me...it is not because I am a fragile vulnerable</p><p>thing, lol. After 48 years parenting and the same number of years in the work place I am not intimidated. on the other hand, he is the only one of the kids who ever has challenged me. Interesting.</p><p>His psychiatrist believes that difficult child takes his anger out on me because I am the one he trusts most so it is "safe". No matter what the reason it is discombobulating and I send my sympathy to your wife.</p><p></p><p>I've got to hit the hay but wanted you to know that almost always</p><p>somebody around here is awake and welcoming. Tonight it is me.</p><p>DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 109624, member: 35"] Hi, Paul. Welcome back. Sorry to hear that things have gotten worse but it is good that you have taken steps forward to get a neuro/psychiatric done. Why is there such a long wait for scheduling? I know sometimes insurance coverage requires delays but it really does seem like your son is pushing the issues rather drastically and that is an indication that help is needed sooner than later, in my humble opinion. Truthfully I would find a way to go "out of network" if necessary to get resolution faster. My fear would be that new patterns of behavior may become entrenched. Meanwhile, did you all read the recommended Explosive Child book? Many of our CD members swear by that book and feel it saved their family sanity. Personally I have not had the issues you have until this last (8th) child. The commonality is in the fact that he directs his anger and insults to me, like your boy does his Mom. Believe me...it is not because I am a fragile vulnerable thing, lol. After 48 years parenting and the same number of years in the work place I am not intimidated. on the other hand, he is the only one of the kids who ever has challenged me. Interesting. His psychiatrist believes that difficult child takes his anger out on me because I am the one he trusts most so it is "safe". No matter what the reason it is discombobulating and I send my sympathy to your wife. I've got to hit the hay but wanted you to know that almost always somebody around here is awake and welcoming. Tonight it is me. DDD [/QUOTE]
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