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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 445565" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Im with Crazy in inviting you to post over in Parents Emeritus. </p><p></p><p>I notice you have a grandchild in your signature. Whose child is this? I hope its not one of these kids. </p><p></p><p>Seriously, you need to decide that you have had your fill of what is going on with in your house or it wont change. The mere fact that they have burned all other bridges isnt your problem. </p><p></p><p>I can tell you what I would do if this was my house and my family simply because I have had adult kids living at home. Number one, I dont run a boarding house...its my home and I dont appreciate being woken up all night long. I want everyone home by 11 pm unless advance notice is given. If you arent working or going to school, then you need to be looking for a job at least 20 hours a week. (Dr Phil says 40 but I will cut them some slack here) You need proof that they are looking too. Chores and such are done daily. They are responsible for a portion of household expenses ie rent. </p><p></p><p>If they wont agree to certain conditions or they continue to flaunt your rules, well you have no choice but to show them the door. They will figure it out. They will also probably do much better out of your home than in it even though you cannot imagine it now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 445565, member: 1514"] Im with Crazy in inviting you to post over in Parents Emeritus. I notice you have a grandchild in your signature. Whose child is this? I hope its not one of these kids. Seriously, you need to decide that you have had your fill of what is going on with in your house or it wont change. The mere fact that they have burned all other bridges isnt your problem. I can tell you what I would do if this was my house and my family simply because I have had adult kids living at home. Number one, I dont run a boarding house...its my home and I dont appreciate being woken up all night long. I want everyone home by 11 pm unless advance notice is given. If you arent working or going to school, then you need to be looking for a job at least 20 hours a week. (Dr Phil says 40 but I will cut them some slack here) You need proof that they are looking too. Chores and such are done daily. They are responsible for a portion of household expenses ie rent. If they wont agree to certain conditions or they continue to flaunt your rules, well you have no choice but to show them the door. They will figure it out. They will also probably do much better out of your home than in it even though you cannot imagine it now. [/QUOTE]
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