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<blockquote data-quote="SRL" data-source="post: 198496" data-attributes="member: 701"><p>Sorry I missed this, NIS.</p><p> </p><p>I would have been hopping mad reading that report. Actually, it would have taken far less than that to make me hopping mad. I'd venture a guess that most of us would look pretty dysfunctional if someone came in and took that close of a look at us under a high power microscope!</p><p> </p><p>I'll tell you what I'd do. Wade through that report and categorize the comments. </p><p> </p><p>1) Take note of anything that might be accurate which could possibly be contributing to your son's instability. 2) And then look and see if there's anything that could be done about it. For instance, your housing situation isn't likely to change anytime soon and just glancing through your list it doesn't sound like she's too sensitive to the very unique interactions in an extended family living on the same property (we lived with family sometimes growing up so I understand how different it is). Set those aside. We all have to work within some frameworks that aren't likely to change--that's just life.</p><p> </p><p>There are comments in there which would apply to all of us when we're starting through the process of helping a difficult child child such as <span style="color: #0000ff"><em>there is a negative interaction pattern developed from parental frustrations to behaviors. </em></span><span style="color: black">I don't know where you're at but most of us needed to make changes in this aspect and even when we get it it tends to pop up again from time to time. Ditto with <em><span style="color: #0000ff">parents rarely</span></em></span></p><p><span style="color: black"><em><span style="color: black">practice a unified front</span></em></span></p><p><span style="color: black"></span></p><p> </p><p>Put in a call to county mental health and find out if medical assistance is contingent on this family assessment/therapy. Most likely there does need to be some sort of ongoing apt but it could easily be a proof of a therapist or doctor meeting with the child every x months and not this whole works.</p><p> </p><p>Sorry you're having to go through this--very painful, I'm sure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SRL, post: 198496, member: 701"] Sorry I missed this, NIS. I would have been hopping mad reading that report. Actually, it would have taken far less than that to make me hopping mad. I'd venture a guess that most of us would look pretty dysfunctional if someone came in and took that close of a look at us under a high power microscope! I'll tell you what I'd do. Wade through that report and categorize the comments. 1) Take note of anything that might be accurate which could possibly be contributing to your son's instability. 2) And then look and see if there's anything that could be done about it. For instance, your housing situation isn't likely to change anytime soon and just glancing through your list it doesn't sound like she's too sensitive to the very unique interactions in an extended family living on the same property (we lived with family sometimes growing up so I understand how different it is). Set those aside. We all have to work within some frameworks that aren't likely to change--that's just life. There are comments in there which would apply to all of us when we're starting through the process of helping a difficult child child such as [COLOR=#0000ff][I]there is a negative interaction pattern developed from parental frustrations to behaviors. [/I][/COLOR][COLOR=black]I don't know where you're at but most of us needed to make changes in this aspect and even when we get it it tends to pop up again from time to time. Ditto with [I][COLOR=#0000ff]parents rarely[/COLOR][/I] [I][COLOR=black]practice a unified front[/COLOR][/I] [/COLOR] Put in a call to county mental health and find out if medical assistance is contingent on this family assessment/therapy. Most likely there does need to be some sort of ongoing apt but it could easily be a proof of a therapist or doctor meeting with the child every x months and not this whole works. Sorry you're having to go through this--very painful, I'm sure. [/QUOTE]
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